i cant help but feel guilty because i love my girlfriend very much but sometimes i cant help but be attracted to other girls and think they are hot. should i feel guilty if i think other girls are hot and fantasize about them even though i love my gf?
2007-03-13 14:24:50 · 15 answers · asked by rottenboy57 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I strongly urge you to do is just concentrate on the one relationship you have with your girlfriend.
2007-03-13 14:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you don't have to feel guilty! Just don't cross the limit if you want a serious and honest relationship with your GF.
Dream and Fantasise all you can and it is healthy! Just don't tell your girlfriend that some other girl is hot. No matter how much they love you, they will not like you to make a comment as such.
2007-03-14 03:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not feel guilty, you just admire and get attracted and want to see these things in your girl friend. These are good signs you love your girl friend a lot and lot. This is absoutly a manly behaviour as realy girls are so pretty that you can't control your feelings, but stick to your girl friend if you will think of keeping more and more see to your budget and energy level to move around in the weekend and satisfy every girl friend.
2007-03-14 01:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by RUBY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think:
-Is the bird in hand worth two in the bush?
If you are willing to take the risk then break with the current GF, it is okay... there will be pain but it will go away..
Also ask ur self:
-Is your GF too possessive, too demanding or too frigid? - that you look at other girls?
-Is she too selfish that u look at other girls?
etcetc
Because if you are in love, you dont need another person. So understand fully...
Do you think she is the best u can get? Or do you think youve settled for something less? Is she feeling like that?
Why dont you openly talk to her? Some GF are understanding....
2007-03-13 22:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Hungry soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know the first thing about love. If you truly love your girl friend, you would have eyes only for her...no other female in the world should be more attractive to you. Let me put it to you this way if your girl friend were attracted to other guys, how would you feel? If you are cool it means that you don't really love her. You are being attracted to other girls now because you don't really love your girl friend.
I am surprised by the many girls who seem to think it is OK for you to be attracted to other girls. May I ask those girls if they would have no problems if their boy friends were attracted to other girls?
2007-03-14 07:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's natural to fantasize about other people and still love someone else. it's what u do about those fantasies that matters. as long as they stay that way and u never act on them then it is ok. but of course when u are with ur gf then the only thing that should be on your mind is ur gf.
2007-03-13 23:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should feel guilty.
If u would had been truely in love with the ur gf, then u would not had felt any othe girls in this world hot.
Now decide urself are u in love with ur gf or just it is a timepass.
2007-03-14 02:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u truly love ur GF u will never take ur eyes off her. If u think other girls r hot, then u r hurting & cheating her. U ought to feel guilty.
2007-03-13 21:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if love rules or dominates u where is the place of seeing or feeling hot about ...i think u love her verbally u have not felt the love for love r u some sort of a compromise love with her if so this relationship will not hold or stand long i am sorry to say this ...
ultimately the gf will also lose her love on u so better decide ..
if u want one relationship to hold on ..better let go other things of lust.........................................
2007-03-17 06:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty, these are just signs which shows you are a very normal MAN...!
2007-03-14 02:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by jammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋