My bf and I love making out, and we just starting making out a lot. We have both talked about how we are not going to have sex because we are christian, and we have basicly reached our limit to what we said we would do. No oral, and no sex. (I'm 16, he's 17 btw) My question is, is there a point where nomatter what a guy has professed he's going to do, it just doesn't matter and he has to have it? He's a wonderful person but I just want to be careful. Thankx for any feedback!
2007-03-13 14:24:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just dont let him do anything you arent comfortable with... he sounds like a good guy that will respect your boundaries..
best of luck.
2007-03-13 14:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the thing is that the more you make out, the harder it's going to end up being to wait. Yes, there definitely is a point of arousal (for both guys and girls, although stereotypically guys tend to reach this point sooner) when you don't want to stop. This isn't necessarily a point of no return because it's still physically possible to stop, but you really really don't want to.
I could continue to explain this, and will glady try to help if you want to know anything else specifically, but I think that the best way for you to answer your questions is to go to someone a bit more knowledgeble than I am. I looked around for some of the websites I read when I was thinking about many of the same questions and found this one.
http://www.pureloveclub.com/
There's an entire section called chastity q&a or something like that, and they have ideas to think about on this and many other issues.
Good luck hun!
2007-03-13 14:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by KatieBee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Studies have shown that a higher percent of Christian abstinence people end up having sex than those who do not try to abtain. This being the case, if you do not want to have sex, then don't do all the things that lead to it. If you do want to have sex, go for it, but use birth control precautions.
2007-03-13 14:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a *****. no longer a real buddy. My perfect buddy went for a guy I cherished and had a considerable considerable historic previous with jointly as i replaced into on trip. After battling and making up together with her (I forgave yet by no skill forgot) we persevered to be large acquaintances yet I watched her cheat on him many times and over. I hated what she did and that i wished no longer something greater effective than to interrupt it up. yet i did no longer because of the fact i'm above that. My element is, while somebody trusts you with inner maximum tips there is not any excuse for betrayal. She did you incorrect. in case you desire to make her experience like ****, tell her no rely what you may by no skill do to her what she did to you. She's waiting for a bad reaction. do no longer supply her one. And as for the BF...he would not opt for to take heed to you out so forget him. except what you probably did replaced into undesirable. (or you may desire to unfold **** approximately her and make her cry)
2016-10-02 02:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can always stop. Trouble is he may not want to, hormones are very powerful and to some degree you are running a risk by making out that "hormones will take over".
2007-03-13 14:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by shadouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to want to, I think if you want to stick to ur plan u should give oral though
2007-03-13 14:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by I want u2 hit me as hardas u can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you are comfortable with...it does not matter what religion you are. Take precautions for diseases and pregnancy.
2007-03-13 14:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, don't be a cok teaser.
and please if you're worried just don't go into a private place, i mean he's not going to do it in public.
be more worried about the fact that you may want to. be afraid. OOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHH ScArY.
2007-03-13 14:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by neojonako 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you don't want it just as bad as he does.
2007-03-13 14:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by jjsingh97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him (if he asks) that u just arent ready, if he gives u crap about it then tell him its over, he will understand
2007-03-13 14:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by The Cutest Thing Ever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋