i have a boyfriend but i also have a GOOD guyfriend. i have been friends with this guy for awhile. i find myself waiting for an email or phone call from him! i think im in love but i dont wanna hurt my bf. what do i do
2007-03-13 14:20:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
really think about the relationship that you have with your boyfriend.
How strong are the feeling that you have.
ALso think about the feelings you have for your guyfriend.
Dont end a relationship with someone because you might "think" you're in love with someone else. You need to be sure.
When you are sure that you are in love with the guyfriend, then you are going to have a talk with your bf and let him know.
Its going to hurt him, it always hurts..but honesty is the best way as well as making sure of your own feelings.
good luck.
2007-03-13 14:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way i see it is that you are already hurting your boyfriend as you aren't giving him 100% of you feelings and that you have this other guy in your heart. You need to take some time out from both guys and think about who it is that you really want to be with. You should do this as soon as you can because otherwise you are just hurting them both, and if you have these feelings for your friend i'm certain that he's the one you want. Make your decision so that your bf can move on if he isn't the one you choose.
2007-03-13 14:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. that's too bad for your bf. Do you love your bf..or not?
If you just like your bf but not love, then you must think about the relationship with your bf b/c I don't think you'r that into your bf. Before you feel something more from your guy friend, you'd be better off to find where you are really at. Ask yourself do you really love your bf? if you think you'r going to hurt him anyhow by developing your feelings toward that guy friend, then you need to break up with your bf as early as you can.. In that way, you won't hurt your bf more than you think it would be.
2007-03-13 14:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by heyheyhey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to end up hurting both of them. If you KNOW that you're in love with another guy, break up with your bf. He's going to end up hurt anyway because if you don't break up with him and he learns that you were in love with someone else, he will think that you were playing him.
2007-03-13 14:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, which guy do you think you would be happier with? If it's your guy friend, then you should go with him, because you might regret missing out on this guy when you're older. Good luck! It just depends on how much you love both of them! :-)
2007-03-13 14:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well find out if the guy you like likes you back? cause you never want to leave the one you love for the one you think you live cause the one you think you love will leave you for the one they love. just be careful. and if he does like you. tell your bf you think you should just be friends and you love him but you cant date him. :]] good luck
2007-03-13 14:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with your friend, please tell him how you feel and see how he responds.
You owe it to yourself to be as happy as you can possibly be.
Your boyfriend will be hurt at first if you leave him, but it is better that you free him up to find the person he is meant to be with if it isn't you.
Good luck, and I hope this helps. :)
2007-03-13 15:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if in fact you feel this way about your friend, you owe it to yourself and your boyfriend to let them both know. time is a very precious thing. you are wasting your's and his. he may be mad at first and hurt but he'll get over it in time. don't sacrifice your happiness for another's. do you!
2007-03-13 14:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by d. w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do u feel more strongly about? Does ur friend feel the same way?
Whatever u do break up with him before u go out with guy friend.
2007-03-13 14:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? Because if you are young you probably aren't in love with your boyfriend anyway, so i say go for it.
2007-03-13 14:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by delilah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋