15 year old in high school, I very rarely socialize and just started making friends there. I'm starting to break out of it, but what should I do? Im still afraid of people!
2007-03-13 14:15:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO being shy is not consdiered unattractive!
If you're naturally shy; don't force yourself to do things you wouldn't want to do. You will have your time; someone will befriend you for who you are; someone will love you (eventually) for who you are. Just believe in yourself and you'll find that it only matters about who you REALLY are.
You wouldn't want to have a midlife crises when you're older and regret changing yourself for others!
2007-03-13 14:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by thepenpal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...yeah..you have to learn how to laugh and joke around with people. Everyone loves a good laugh and someone who is positive and outgoing. Smile, laugh, and learn how to create conversations. Do not be afraid of being the first to talk to someone...Practice it! Go up to a stranger and work on those people skills! Trust me, it will help you make a lot of new friends! Being too shy will hold you back and some people might think that you are stuck up. Work on it and you will get the hang of it!
2007-03-13 21:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shy is not unattractive. In fact, a lot of girls like a boy who's not outspoken... some girls find that to be mysteriously attractive, but there is a fine line I believe. You can't leave people thinking you are autistic or don't know how to speak! You get the idea... be yourself. If you're trying to be anything else, you'll attract the wrong kinda girls.
2007-03-13 21:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by mixikitten 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PPL DONT BITE!!!!
also its not really unattractive its just sorta harder to make friends and to be reconized as available and stuff like that. My boyfriend was really shy and i was the only one who ever talked to him but he still is really cute and nice. He still has a close group of friends that he mostly talks to but hes become a lot more sociallized.So just remember that people like dont [completely] think ur weird and unnatractive but its just harder to meet ppl
2007-03-13 21:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by brunette babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes being shy is unattractive because it can get in the way of a lot of things... i have been there man and that place is hell..(shyness that is) you will eventually get over it...
2007-03-13 21:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shy to me is kinda sexy, just as long as the guy is comfortable around me it's fine.
2007-03-13 21:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy guys are hot. confidense is also hot. ha ha.
2007-03-13 21:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by fifteenlovegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋