when i talk to her, what ever the subject is, i always keep coming back talking about myself, how should i stop talking about myself.?.. -_-
2007-03-13 14:14:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi!!!
Probably you feel a bit awkward, when a person is quiet,so to avoid the silence you do the talking.
Or you have a lot of things inside of you, things that for one reason or the other are bothering you, and you would like to share them.
I think you are trying to look for acceptance, for someone to listen and tell you , "I understand", sincerely.
But to tell you the truth that could be a down side to a friendship, or a relationship.
Plan to ask some questions, and try to keep them on a neutral subject, that will give her the chance to respond, without feeling pressure into answering, to many personal questions.
Remember this, if you really like that person, let her express herself, is the only way, to get to know one better.
In the other hand if you are constantly talking, you will never know who she really is!!!! Be fair, to her but also to yourself.
GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-03-13 14:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem too....I hate awkward silences....so I just talk as much as I can so there never will be one. MAKE SURE YOU DONT DO THIS!!!! Because pretty soon you will feel like you are taslking to yourself. Just take it slow and ank her questions about her
2007-03-13 21:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Alyssa D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about her if u cant just focus.Or u just may be conceted.Get professional help.If my tip dosent work.
2007-03-13 21:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by adamsshonna 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
may-be you just have nothing better to talk about
2007-03-13 21:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you want to impress her.
2007-03-13 21:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
becuz you am not rapped two tighte
2007-03-13 21:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋