he claims to have never loved them mut hes been really different to me. he doesnt have a myspace at least to my knowledge so i dont know what to do should i confront him or should i jusr wait and see. for what i dont know. please i need advice. we have 2 kids together another on the way in june. by the way just earlier today he told me he wishes he could trun back time because i would be just a 1 night stand im debating if i should part from him . i need GOOD advice FAST!!!!!!! please.
2007-03-13 14:12:39 · 8 answers · asked by mommyof6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a life........
2007-03-13 14:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The handwriting is on the wall, my dear. The man hasn't made his relationship to you permanent after all these years despite two children with another one coming. Now he is wishing to turn the clock back 8 years and telling you frankly that in hindsight, you would have been only a one-night-stand with him. In addition, he is looking up his exes???
Do wake up and smell the coffee. Short of telling you to your face, this man wants out!!! Do him the favor and let him go. It'll be really liberating for you in the long run. Say "Good riddance!" but don't forget to collect on his responsibilities: his children. He can't have his cake and eat it, too, you know. He's got to realize that when he plays . . . he PAYS.
2007-03-13 14:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so, so sorry, sweetie! if he flat out said such horrible things as telling you that you'd be a one night stand, he's so gone! let him roll in his self pity, searching for relationships that didnt last in the first place! go find yourself some of your closest friends, and start the search for your NEW man, and new begining!
2007-03-13 14:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the way he feels, dump city.
How do you know he's been searching for exes on myspace?
2007-03-13 14:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he said something like that he is just a black hearted trash bag leave him you will be much better off without his sad existence kids need a good father , he is obviously not a man
2007-03-13 14:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat!? your BF had kids? You should have gotten married first! Also Myspace is full of Myspacehors so they probbaly added him because the wanted more friends not the outher way around.
PS whouldent that make your kids bastards?
2007-03-13 14:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by dildop5005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sry to hear that but u should confrot him and if he acts the same after u tried to talk them just dump him!! its not worth all the trouble
2007-03-13 16:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him he sounds like a dog...why should he care about his ex's if he is with you now...
2007-03-13 14:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by conundrum_dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋