So the boy I'm in love with used to have feelings for me last year (but was soo shy and too stubborn to make a move, and even when it was perfectly clear that I liked him too, he basically let me go and didn't try to pursue a relationship with me...i had NO idea he liked me).
and now, as a year or so has passed, i have feelings for him still, but he tells me he doesnt anymore (because of my ex, who is his best friend....i stupidly made that mistake). he also told me that he doesn't feel like a relationship would work, and that he has "trouble with girlfriends"...but doesnt know what went wrong last year when we both liked each other.
now i feel stuck...he occasionally tells me that my ex (his best friend) is a jerk and an *** and that i shouldn't bother talking to him.
and then recently, another friend of both of them (whom i've never talked to before) told me that both of them talk about me at school.
so really, as you can see...i am quite confused. does he like me still?
2007-03-13
14:07:48
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will he make a move eventually?
he knows i still like him, and ive tried, but it doesnt seem to work.
should i just be patient?
2007-03-13
14:08:38 ·
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Flirt with him and see how he takes it. If you act open and flirty around him hopefully he will get the hint and ask you out.
2007-03-13 14:09:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Ego shot in the arm.... wait for it .... here it comes ..... Yes, he is looking at you as a possible gf. But ... for some reason, he's waiting to see if you've changed. Something you did doesn't sit right with him. He's fine with it now, but won't go for you until you demonstrate you've fix that problem.
Also, you need to make sure that his Bbf isn't poisoning the well, so to speak. You did date him over your current objective. Get things right with that guy, friends(?), before you move to the one you want. In a strange way, it's good that they both talk about you. What you tell one will get to both.
Above everything else, you must make sure they both understand, this time you are serious and will not take shy as an excuse.
2007-03-13 14:19:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Move on babe! Guys either want a relationship with you or they don't. There may be something in his mind that turns him off and there is no power on earth going to change that.
Look, there are thousands of nice guys out there. Find a boy that you can fall in love with on a mutual basis, then you will be happy!
Forget this guy. Just be friends with him.
2007-03-13 14:11:36
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answered by Anonymous
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he still likes you, and he isn't' worth the time. honestly, a situation like that, i don't give a *$%^ what my man has to do with it, I'll still get on. it isn't that tight with me and my man I'm not sleeping with him; i mean there's no disrespect, but is his friendship with his boy really worth loosing someone who really likes him. i think not. i gave up a lot of friends for the girl I'll do it again it isn't that deep. you can always make new friends. he needs to get his priorities straight.
he's also intimidated by his man, and wondering what he can bring to the relationship that his man didn't. he needs to get out of his shadows; the fact that he's different may be exactly what you need to keep it going. if he ever gets his head out of his *&$, then you might want to sit down and talk with him about it; it'll be weird, but he's so obsessed with what happened it'll be the only way you can have a real chance with him to begin with. but i'd suggest you move on and leave the two fo them alone ....
2007-03-13 14:18:56
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answered by collard greens with hash browns 4
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no you should not just be patient (no im not a guy but ive been through this) the best thing to is to just move on..... you have to stop chancing after this guy.... if he wants to be with you HE will look for you not the other way around... and most likely this relationship wont work out anyways (thats just wat it seems like) and it would be wrong for him to go out with you since you did go out with his best friend.... just move on.. theres plenty other fish in the sea...... and you will find someone even better
2007-03-13 14:12:10
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answered by Confused_chick_77 2
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Let it go for a while. Forget about it- and maybe he'll catch up on this and realize that you liked him. Honestly- there isn't much you CAN do to influence him. In fact, there is NOTHING you can do. But that's kind of the point. If he's said he's uncomfortable with it- just let it go, and who knows? Maybe he'll change his mind.
2007-03-13 14:11:39
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answered by chrisser665 3
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2016-10-02 02:02:00
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answered by ? 4
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Yep, through him some hints and see what happens..
Good Luck.
2007-03-13 14:12:00
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answered by DIR S 2
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if he likes you then he would have came out and told you but... maby he is shy tooyou never know the outcome life is random
2007-03-13 14:11:19
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answered by Serina 1
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Move on...in his mind you are not good enough for him...Why waste your time...there are more fish in the ocean....bigger and tastier...
2007-03-13 14:14:26
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answered by jay b 2
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