Dump him and go get a aids check......
2007-03-13 14:08:30
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answered by troble # one? 7
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once a cheater, always a cheater.
On top of that, it has forever stained your understanding of the guy. If ever in the future someone else has any reason to doubt him, this incident will reinforce that doubt in your mind and push to side against him. Its hard to trust again.
Moreover, do you believe him? Ask yourself whether his apology was sincere and held any deep meaning to you.
If he cheated with another man - he might be gay and using you as a prop to cover himself up in front of the world....
2007-03-13 14:12:20
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answered by Zuri 3
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I would leave him so quickly that his head would be spinning, what kind of diseases could he bring home to you? If he is gay that is fine, sure i'd be upset but there is no way that i would stay if he was bi. Regardless on wether he cheated with a male or female i would be out the door and definitely wouldn't look back.
2007-03-13 14:14:16
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answered by jimmy_chick78 4
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Well.... It would be a bit odd to see. and I am sure that I would be a bit upset. However he may be going through a time where he isnt sure what way that he wants to go and you should sit down and discuss it with him like an adult. THis may be a difficult time for him and I am sure that he could use all the support in the world right now. starting with you.
2007-03-21 10:59:53
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answered by kat 2
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For me cheating is cheating whether it's with a man, a woman or both. I would not forgive him. I would dump him no matter how painful.
If he was with a man you might consider his orientation. Perhaps he is gay and just trying to act straight. He may be fairly confused.
2007-03-13 14:13:23
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answered by Anonymous
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i would put my foot up his a ss. no matter what he was cheating on me with...
good thing i am not nor do i plan on dating anyone.. every time i think i might, i get slapped in the face with reality. and i do realize that
people are so not worth my precious time.
sorry. i'm just an angry person tonight..
but yeah, he's sorry. but i'm not so forgiving..
and yuck.. that would be the worst kind of cheating, in my own opinion.
2007-03-17 15:59:28
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answered by lil' angel 6
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Same thing as if I saw him with a women. Cheating is cheating. If you let him get away with it once chances are it will continue
2007-03-21 10:29:12
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answered by tarakootenay 3
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my ex promised to stop cheating (w/ opposite sex, but i've often wondered...), and, natch, he did NOT! there are problems that cause the cheating -emotional, mental, or just plain irresponsibility, doesnt matter. it's all cheating, and it's not likely to stop just bc it's discovered --it'll only end up being more cautiously concealed. move on, dont look back, and you'll find yourself much happier! best of luck!
2007-03-13 14:14:57
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answered by Anonymous
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They think they can stop but this is your first sign. They cant help the way they are. Ever hear the saying "How many times do you have to be kicked in the head to know your being kicked in the head"
2007-03-13 14:09:55
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answered by Anonymous
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I would dump him....cheating with a man or woman is still cheating. like the quote says...once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-03-13 14:09:17
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answered by *purplelicious* 3
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What exactly did you see? Were they making out? Did they have sex? And if so, what are you doing watching?
I would not continue in this relationship due to the high percentage of danger from STDs and AIDs.
2007-03-13 14:10:31
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answered by Blue 6
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