my boyfriend before i was with him used to sleep around...he says that he is ready for a real relationship now but i am not sure if i should trust him...i really want to and i love him a lot...im really confused on what to do especially since he says he will tell me anything he thinks that was wrong of him to do while he is in a ralationship...he has told me things that he has done but still...im not sure....i need help and serious answers
2007-03-13 13:50:09 · 7 answers · asked by just_like_me_for_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never trust what a guy says they lie
2007-03-13 13:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his heart is in the right place, and he thinks he can just stop cold turkey because he's in love with you, but it's rarely that easy. if you do keep on with him, you have to be realistic about the fact that it's a possibility that 6 months, 2 years down the line once the novelty has worn off that he'll start sleeping around again. you need to figure out if that's the type of relationship that you want or need. he needs to be more upfront about why he sleeps around and what his commitment issues are; you really need to get a feel for where he is coming from on this. you know checking in with you when you think that you're about to do something wrong or are in the wrong just isn't enough; it won't prevent anything. it will lead to a lot of arguments though; this could be a convenient way for him to have an open relationship with you; tread carefully ...
2007-03-13 20:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on women before you, he will almost certainly do it again. He has issues that he should deal with if he really wants to stop, and those shouldn't be your issues. You can not fix him. And you don't even know that he wants to stop -- what he tells you and what he does are two different things. I would get out and seek a more stable and trustworthy partner. Without trust, you have nothing.
2007-03-13 21:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by zen habits 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you want to believe him so-oo bad, don't cha?
Oh, you wanna believe he's changed, don't cha?
Oh, you wanna forget what he did to all those others, don't cha?
You know deep down, he's wants to be a good guy, don't cha?
{raspberry sound} BS
He's playing with your heart. What has he done, what history has he shown, that explains what he said he wants to do. Ask one of the others if he said he was NOW looking for a more "REAL" relationship. What do they say?
But, you wanna believe him, don't cha?
Vegas odds-makers give you a 1 in 500 chance of being his long range girl. Then they snicker. I think they were being generous.
2007-03-13 21:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe try to talk to him, and you just have to trust yourself to trust him
2007-03-13 20:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, it's worth it. Go for it! :-) Good luck!
2007-03-13 20:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the minute he does something disrecpetful to u..... leave him and dont look back.
2007-03-13 20:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋