so its springbreak and i've been sitting at home all day... my friends ditched me yesterday and i didnt even bother to call anyone today... and the girl that i like is acting like a b...sometimes she acts all flirty and close to me n then i dont hear from her in a week... idk what the f... happend... everything was going great and all of a sudden...spring break comes and everyone decides to bail on me and im just sitting here bored i just want to do something... whats going on?
2007-03-13 13:44:06 · 14 answers · asked by zakattak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi!!!
There two things you can do. Keep depressed or go on your own!!!
If you keep depressed then really everybody will be having fun, but you!!
If you go on your own without waiting on others, making your own plans, going places by yourself!! The opportunities are endless!!!
Look at it this way. If you go out by yourself the people you will meet will be your contacts, in the future, you can explore yourself even farther, when you are by yourself.
Make your own social environment instead of the same one everybody is in!!! Come on!!! Go out there explore and make use of your individuality, to the full potential!!!!
After all did you knew them before???? No, right???
So the same way you met them, the same way you can meet others.
One smart advise, since your friends, ditched you this time, the new friends that you will meet, don't bring them to the same circle of those that ditched you!!! Keep them separate, like this you always have much more options, for spring break, birthdays, Fridays nights, Saturdays and any occasion!!!
I hope I was of some help!!! Go and have fun by yourself for yourself!!!! ENJOY!!!!!
GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-03-13 14:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's rough. Why don't you want to call anybody? You should call some people up anyway. There's gotta be someone who wants to hang with you. If not anyone you know, just go out on the town and meet some people yourself. You're not really depressed right now, but you're sad and angry that people have been ditching you. If you sit inside and dwell on it longer, you will get depressed. Try to make your own fun.
2007-03-13 13:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u dont sound depressed, but who am i to say? its really up to you and how u feel ur friends probably didn't mean to ditch u, and even tho im a girl, girls are weird. soo. take my advice: get off the computer and get the most out of ur spring break. go outside and stuff, have fun.
2007-03-13 13:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by whoops :) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats mean!! people become...a different person at springbreak cause of all the excitment, trust me. theyll come crawling back to you wanting to be your friend again lol. find some new friends during spring break and just start hangin with them, and makin ur othr friends jealous! good luck!
2007-03-13 13:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by dangg x jessss (: 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about that, guys can be the same way in terms of flirting and what not, hmm i don't think your depressed I think your just feeling down, go out in the sun or something. Just chill and relax--it's spring break
2007-03-13 13:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by oLeSi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no idont think ur depressed at all... ur just bored and u want to hv fun in ur springbreak. who ever says ur depressed they are playin with ur mind... depressed people do stupid stuff to them self but u might be stressed, fustrated, bored and feel u've been left behind ... just go out and make new friends that will keep intouch with u all the time.
2007-03-13 13:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by christina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometime ppl need space and if ur really actiive then no ur not depressed but from how this sounds u might want to find some new friends or call ur old ones and try to hang out. or u can get a counsilor
2007-03-13 13:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by ladybugs380 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have a good time when she see your not sitting home waiting for her shell get the message,,,,,
2007-03-13 13:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about that, man. You are going through a series of tough times... they will pass. Hang in there !
2007-03-13 13:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by GratefulDad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you might be. Just go to a doctor and they can get a prescription for you.
2007-03-13 13:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lior 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋