i feel like my bf isn't telling me somthing. it's like he's worried that i'm going to find something out. it started when he said that he loved me (like usual) and as a joke i said "realy?" and he answered "yeah, i realy do." in a serius voice. it shocked me but i kind've knew. and now he won't talk to me like we used to. what should i do?
2007-03-13 13:27:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should ask him what is the matter with him. tell him that you really love him and he can tell you anything and if it is bad then tell him you can work something out with him. if he said that he has found another girl and be real understanding. Im sure he really loves you. Just ask him what is wrong with him and tell him that you are there for him.
2007-03-13 13:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by Shibby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you guys been together anyway? its common for guys to act like that. They say they love you all the time from the beginning of the relationship, then eventually they probably assume you know that they love you, so they dont feel like they need to remind you all the time. You should talk to him about how you feel and maybe get him to say "i love you" more often so that you can make sure he will always love you.
2007-03-13 13:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just getting irritated by you always asking "really"! That is why he got serious when you said it.
Women are emotional beings, sometimes our men get a little sick of having to reassure us of their feelings!
I discourage you from going to him and having an emotional heart to heart. If he is feeling smothered, then an emotional conflict is just going to make it worse. You will have to talk to him about it, but don't go into it unprepared and emotionally charged!
2007-03-13 13:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by April M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he didn't like the way you asked him "realy?" He may have not known it was a joke. Try talking to him about it.
2007-03-13 13:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kingsfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Ask him what's on his mind these days. It's the only way. Believe me, men are pretty umm....think in the head. lol. So use the women's strongest quality and communicate. lol.
2007-03-13 13:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by The Random Blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wanted you to know he was serious,...and than he got shy,...did you tell him you love him seriously ,also?
2007-03-13 13:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you were just kidding mabyee he is scared that you dont "really"
MABYEE
2007-03-13 13:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋