Okay...i live with my stepdad...not mom, dont ask, its a complicated situation. But me and him dont get along at alllll. And he drinks ALOT. The thing is that Im a 15 year old teenage boy who doesnt get along with his 38 year old stepdad, and he is huge. Hes about 6'5'' 250+ pounds, very very buff and built guy. Im skinny 5'7'' 138 pounds. He gets to drinking and gets viloent for no reason, and hes giving a black eye and all sorts of things....one time we were arguing and he grabbed me by the throat and picked me up and was choking me in the air, and when he starts beating me up, i cant stop him, hes too big and too strong. any advice?????
2007-03-13 13:24:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummmm..id move or learn 2 duck an run
2007-03-13 13:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by ToddMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived in an abusive situation for a few years before I got the courage to speak up and ask for help. He had threatened me, controlled me, etc to the point that I didn't really have time to think about things in a logical way - I was too busy thinking about keeping him from getting angry. Eventually you will need to get assistance - why wait? You have a few teen years left to go through and everyone deserves to feel safe. He may be ok when he is not drunk, but since he chooses alcohol, you aren't really left with much of a choice but to ask for help. That would be the wise thing to do.
2007-03-13 15:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really are serious and not making this up, you need to get out of there and get help. tell a counselor @ school if they r any good or tell someone you trust [a teacher or a friend]
or someone you can stay with
what hes doing is child abuse since you are still not an adult yet. it is against the law && VERY bad!!!
you dont want him to end up going farther than he already has
PLEASE get help!
good luck
2007-03-13 13:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by brunette_attraction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police, or better yet Child Protective Services, they are experienced with these cases. Do it, your life might be in danger. CPS in the phone book, usually under county offices.
2007-03-13 13:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad situation, why isn't mom there, I know you said complicated but someone needs to help you, when he gets violent again, dial 911, tell them to tell your stepdad that neighbors heard yelling and called. the damage that situation is causing you mentally is far worse than the beating he is giving you. don't be intimidated by him, when he is drunk, he is 5'1" and weighs 90 lbs. louisville slugger size.
2007-03-13 13:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have any relatives who you can move in with if not you should report him make sure you take pictures if he lets you any bruises you have to end this now you don't know if the next time he might end up beating you to death.
2007-03-13 13:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,.. that sounds so harrible,.. you seem like you have had a hard life,.. all i can tell you to do is to tell someone,.. tell someone fast,.. someone who you know can and will help you... dont be scared to talk,.. be scared to live in that house and use that as motivation to get out of there.
2007-03-13 13:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called the po-lice..
2007-03-13 13:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all you've said is true.......call CPS
2007-03-13 13:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋