Are men polygamous by nature?

Question

It might explain a lot. I've got a lovely gf and have a great love life but can't stop thinking about/flirting with other girls. Perhaps women should just accept that guys are made that way and men should stop fighting it

Answer 1

Man, I've been knowing that....

Answer 2

the theory that men are patently polygamous makes suited experience: returned whilst survival become the biggest element for humanity, between the main needed steps in that survival become to be sure the continuation of the human race. of course, at that element, surviving till adulthood become helpful or omit proposition; you ought to no longer assure any of your babies might make it. so which you had to have as many childrens as obtainable with as assorted a gene pool as obtainable just to make optimistic some might make it. In different words, organic determination. for that reason, no volume of civilization/lifestyle/society can eliminate our hardwired evolutionary instinct to make optimistic our genes are handed on, so we nonetheless choose to be polygamous to be sure that it occurs. lifestyle has made us monogamous and drugs has made it so we don't choose 30 childrens anymore, however the instinct continues to be.

Answer 3

Most of my male Friends cheat on there wife's/gf without the wives/gf being any the wiser...So I would have to say yes it is in our nature to be cheats. I am a cheat. I think I do it for the buzz as well. Plus I am not blowing my own trumpet here but I am very attractive , so I cheat because I can. How is that for a truthful answer.

Answer 4

Of course we are. It goes back to when the women were in the caves and we were risking our lives to feed them and the children.
I know evolution has changed a lot of things, for a start we do not live in caves any more, but it is still in our blood and an uncontrollable instinct.
You may love your women but there are other women out there who have the right to experience you, and you, as a man do not have the right to refuse them.
I soon realised that I was here for a purpose and that I could not deny women their right to the experience of having met me and enjoyed me as I have loved and enjoyed them.
I think I will go and lie down now, I feel quite exhausted.

Answer 5

Then men wuld never go out with girls again... unless the girls wanted/needed sex for pleasure. Come to think of it, it actually sounds quite free...only that there would be no more children being born in the world. Oh, and no longer will there be something called love.Come on, society imposes rules and laws for a REASON.

Answer 6

That's why mother nature invented STI's, so that old slappers of both sexes have much more chance of catching something nasty and becoming infertile therefore not being able to reproduce.

Amen to that.

Answer 7

yes its not only men though how many men do you think bring up children that don't belong to them it comes under natural selection though look up the animal kingdom and see how the game is meant to be played its us females you have to watch out for

Answer 8

That is a complete joke. If you have self control there should be no problem. Looking at a woman ok but crossing that line just shows that you have a problem and that you really don't love her like you say you do.

Answer 9

Man on the basic animal level is not monogamous.
but as man as a race, has become more intelligent,
culture and emotional development has changed this.

Answer 10

Not all men are that way. I have met plenty of men that are faithful to their wives. Not because they have to be but because they want to be.

Answer 11

They're slappers. But well, if thats what nature intended so be it.