i was hanging with a few mates and we went to a local pub. being a friday night and feeling "pretty good" i asked a girl if she liked to dance, so we danced, after a while she ask if i wanted to get out of here and somewhere more quiet, as i am fully a one man gal i refused and talked about my gf-2-b. by the time i finished my friends were gone, i kno its a bad move, i asked her if she could drop me home, i didn't have enuf change 4 a taxi.
she drop me off and i gave a hug, it didn't mean anything.
Next day, saturday, she asked me if i had it off with someone, i clearly sed no, and she wanted to know who was the girl i brought home last night and showed me a pic on her fone. "she just someone i met last night at the bevy". i don't kno if i missed something or i upset her.
because she'd go out and hang out with men i don't agree with but i trust her.
so i brought up the fact that she hung around with men that i don't even know from her wotk place.
she called me a "man-who*e". i walked
2007-03-13 13:18:08 · 19 answers · asked by lagein 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
walked out of the house and went to drown my sorrows (2 pints), again i ran out of change 4 the taxi. but funny enuf she was there as well. so i sed "can u explain to me missus wot happen last night?" she yes and drop me off again and came inside my missus was upstairs, as i went i asked to stay down 4 a while.
to my sursprise she having itout with a "workfriend" in my bed.
and telling me i got it all wrong, and it meant nothing.
i told her that "the girl from last night is here and willing to tell u wot happend " den i went for his face and she told me dat loved me and went to hide. this is a bit far fetch but wait. he sed that my missus sed i was cheating on her and wanted to get her own back.
so after i gave him bandzges for his face and let him out. the girl from the pub and my gf were talking. my gf leaped and sed sorry and hugged me but i asked her to leave me and i call her i due time. as of the "pub girl" she went home. so what do i do now??
2007-03-13 13:30:50 · update #1
why don't you just get together?
2007-03-13 13:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should talk to ur gf and tell her that it was a misunderstanding but u should no for urslef that u shouldnt be asking other girls to dance and stuff and go to bars without her if ur interested in her, the reason y she went out with some guys was because she wanted to make u jealous and show u that she can get guys as well as u can get girls. I see this as a stupid argument and u should try to work things out with her by talking to her and being kinda and not rude and dont keep on bringing up the fact that she went out with some guys. Hope I Helped!
2007-03-13 13:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its hard for girls to believe you are telling the truth because she also had a pic of you with the other girl. Your "gf-2-b" will jump to conclusions once she sees that. She will think you are telling her lies for excuses of you cheating on her. Thats how its like for most people though...because there are so many jerks that do the same thing and they did actually cheat, so people believe that this would happen to their gf or bf too.
You should try to convince her to believe you by bringing the girl to explain to her about the whole situation.
2007-03-13 13:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you really like her other wise you wouldn't be asking the question. If you really want to prove yourself worthy. COMMUNICATE and problem solve, i find that logics works best. Tell your "GF to be" what really happened, and try to explain your reasoning and decision. Like i said before, the best way to stay in a relationship is communication, so talk with her and make sure she "understands" your decision and that you just (without putting words in your mouth) needed a ride home. Nothing was there and nothing shall be there (Taxi friend).
2007-03-13 13:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sun And Sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm sounds like a disaster... if you were my man and did that i would send you right out the door. On the other hand..how did she get a pic? was she stalking you. Doesn't look good for the two of you and from what you wrote seems comunication is awful!! she is upset about something, brings it up to you in a bad way, then you turn it around on her and throw stuff from the past in her face, then she calls u a name!... very adolecent communication skills from both of you. i don't think u r right for eachother.
2007-03-13 13:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 01:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on your details I don't think either of you should be follow a relationship with the other. If she will not trust you and you don't like the people she hangs out with then you will not have the basic element needed for a relationship- Trust. Stop it before it starts.
2007-03-13 13:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by kodiackgazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that your girlfriend is having some trust problems with you in the realtionship. I'm not being sexist but if your'e being the man and accept that you trust her going out with other guys that you don't know but she doesn't approve you hanging out with other girls then she is just plain jealous. Jealousy can lead to alot of friction in realtionships. How you and your lover deals with it is another matter. If you're having constant arguements with your girl about this problem then it just ain't working out dude! Move on with someone else who is compatible with u. Who knows she just might be "under your nose"
2007-03-13 13:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by J D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u have to admit ur busted even if that's all u did u should have never let the girl bring u home it'll take some serious talk to get out of this one if u can at all remember if u dont put urself in a bad spot then u have nothing to explain
2007-03-13 13:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by Robert C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made the funamental mistake of trying to use reason and logic. Never works. Move on unless a life time with a crazy appeals to you.
2007-03-13 13:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Finbarr D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wonder if this is the version you gave your gf and are now sounding it off to gen public for approval to see if it still sounds plausable ....well good luck in your pesuite of love and happiness
2007-03-13 13:27:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋