when im with someone- "something" is always telling me to break up with them... the last time though is because i decided he was too old for me.. but that hardly makes sense because i already knew how old he is before i got involved. so i broke up with him. he lives out of town now cause i moved. though we talked on the phone a while ago and he said he misses me- that he loves me, and to give him a call sometime.. i said i will- and now i dont really want to-- cause i havent--- but its bugging me like crazy, cause i always think about calling him.. and i still care about him... kind of.
so i guess i want to know.. what should i do?
thx..
2007-03-13 13:14:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If its bugging you that much just give him a call already. You obviously have feelings still because you wouldn't be thinking so much if you didn't.
2007-03-13 13:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by HoneyBrisk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you're scared of relationships. You want to be in a relationship, but you also don't want to. You should give it a chance and only break up if there is a major reason to. Give him a call, get together with him again...
2007-03-13 20:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a self confidence problem. You break up with him before he has a chance to break up with you so you don't get hurt. You need to start liking yourself.
2007-03-13 20:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, if he offered, and you're still thinking about him, go ahead and get it out of the way. Who knows? Maybe you'll actually like it! At the very least, you'll know that you tried.
2007-03-13 20:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps its a commitment issue??? you dont really want to get close to someone in case they hurt you???
and go against your inner voice --- call him see him again see if you can get over this fear --- if you do nothing the fear will get stronger you must make the decision to get out of this situation
2007-03-13 20:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u have some serious commitment problems u might want to look at urself and find the reason why
2007-03-13 20:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAll him and remain good friends with him. I think u broke his heart. Shame on u . u broke that old man's heart
2007-03-13 20:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him.. doesn't hurt to be friends.. never know in the future it might be you two...
2007-03-13 20:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry thats to much to read so i cant answer it answer my new questoin its helps you know!
2007-03-13 20:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋