Please, please take the time to read and help.....?

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Please, please take the time to read and help.....?
Me and my husband filed bankruptcy last year we were able to keep our house so our bills each month some up to 1,200.00 besides eats and gas.we were trullery doing great since the bankruptcy he got a job in the mines i stayed home we had extra money left over it was great well about 1 month ago he lost his job hes not eligable for unemployment and we are already drawing food stamps, he is against me working but he has these standerds as to what he looks for like its eaither the mines or fed-ex ect. things that are not hiring right now and it dosn't seem to worry him at all about not being able to pay our bills i stress all day and caint sleep at night i can barley eat anymore for worrying. because at the end of the month our bills will be due and if we miss our bankruptcy payment will loose our home, he seems to think everything will be fine but how??? he want talk to me about it he say I worry to much and it pisses me off because he dose'nt worry at all.but what else am i to do, i ...

i thought about getting two jobs because that is what it would take im only 20 and i dont have any specail training so minimum wage would be it for me, but we only have the one vehicle and he says no because if someone calls him to work he will have no way to get there. its not that he dont want the house because TRUST ME he dose, he just dont realize the drasticness of all this and nothing worrys him..im sick and tired of being the only one in the relationship who worrys and deals with the bills, i try to talk to him ive even tryed letting him pay the bills but it dose'nt work, we moved out of our home while filing bankruptcy the first time and stayed with my parents and that was the worst expieriance ever i dont want that ever again, i just wish he would come down from his high horse and look for realistic jobs they may not be wonderful but hey they will pay the bills untill somthing else comes along..am i wrong to grip so much to him what should i do.....???????????????????????...

Answer 1

You need to get a job at least one. Call the bankruptcy people see if there is anything you can do to delay the payment . If you don't do it now you will lose the house and probably a lot of yourself don't ever let a person tell you what you are allowed to do or not do. If things continue Like this you will be divorced. Check with your parents if YOU can stay with them if it will make you closer to a job. I don't think you will change his attitude.

Answer 2

Yeah I dont work either because of the one car situation but I chose to sell my car when we moved. Dang I feel for ya and know how it feels to want a job. Although we are in no place like you and your husband are. I dont have to work and I know it but its lonely and boring and I feel like I should be working at times. He isnt going to change his mind. Lots of guys think the woman should stay at home and they should bring home the bacon. I read some of your other questions you posted and you seem like your having a rough time. Gosh I feel for people like you and just want to help but know I cant except be a friend. Im just an average girl and will listen, im me or email me if you want, the names Amanda [e-mail]

Answer 3

Happy Engagement and/or Wedding... 'tis the category!