l know most people frown on that but what if the guy has never hurt you. He says he loves you and really cares about you. Can it be all that bad?
2007-03-13 12:36:49 · 20 answers · asked by oceankimmylucky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have met and been going out for 2 months
2007-03-13 12:44:25 · update #1
He's not that much older than me. WE MET ALREADY
2007-03-13 12:49:04 · update #2
There is nothing wrong in dating a teen.
2007-03-14 04:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am told this is a true story .....
A young girl , maybe 13/14 became friends with a guy online. They had been chatting over a period of a few months and as they chatted the guy wrote down every piece of information the girl gave of herself . It was innocent and unintentionally given on the girls part but little things came out while chatting.... like the school she went to ( she was talking about a sports event and happen to mention the name of their team). Now a little research and he knows what school she attends. Through all of the information he had gathered he had actually showed up at her school and followed her home .... now he knows where she lives. Not long after that , when he knew she had a sporting event at school he went to her house before she was due home.The girls parents were home so he introduced himself and they invited him in. He explained that he was a part of an internet police program ( showing his credentials ) and explained that the program was designed to protect young people using the iternet and expose sexual predators .You should know that their are many such programs now because there are more and more instances of sexual abuse that began innocently over the internet . It is a growing concern for a reason!
There are many genuine people on the internet but it is almost impossible to know if the someone you've met is one of them . The consequences that girl may have faced could be yours. Is it worth the chance ?? I say NO!
2007-03-13 20:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is exactly how girls wind up missing! Let me guess you met him on Myspace?
Just so you know, you can't "date" anyone on line. All you can do is type things into a computer. You have no idea who is on the other end of that computer. He says he loves you? You need to grow up, this is not how things work in the real world!
2007-03-13 19:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by Meadow Soprano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bad idea to date a guy you met online if you are a teen. Get your parents or some other adult authority figures involved and ask them for guidance with this.
2007-03-13 19:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have never met him in person or talked to him on the phone then I don't think it could possibly be a real relationship. I would recommend a real relationship with a guy in your area that you could spend real time with and be close to. And he could be someone he's not, the pictures could be fake, and when he says he wants to meet you in person it just might be an old man that wants to rape and kill you.
2007-03-13 19:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the point of it being bad. its more the point of it being extremely dangerous. u hear many girls getting hurt by online sexual predators and some end up dead, all because they thought that it was harmless.soon u will want to meet and then....yuh!!!people can pose as anyone they want while online, and they might be someone completely different. weigh the odds. be smart and careful, and he doesnt love u because he doesnt know u like that, hes jus telling u what u want to hear, and thats not get on ur part at all to believe him. its ok to chat, but no relationships.
but if he goes to your skool and u know him personally, then its ok. but dont do it .
2007-03-13 19:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People can tell you anything you want to hear. It's up to you to be careful and not get into a situation where you could be hurt. If something sounds odd then ask your parents about it.
2007-03-13 19:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad, it's just not great. You can't sustain a real relationship purely through the internet. Think about it - does your mySpace profile encompass everything about who you are? Of course not, you're much more than that. Similarly, no email can encompass all your feelings.
His love may be sincere, but it is incomplete. You're robbing yourself of the depth of love that only be experienced in person. Meet him in person (in a public place, and don't go anywhere alone, just in case he's not all he seems) and find out for sure.
2007-03-13 19:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Online is ok and just another place to meet people in this busy world. If your careful you can find really nice people.
2007-03-13 19:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not be sure if he is actually the same age as you. He could be a range of things. He could be a sex predator. Do you even know how he looks?
2007-03-13 19:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by Blossom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋