why am i allways so golldamn edgy i allways act like people are asking dumb questions and i have no prob telln

Question

them so ? what can help ? i cant even stand myself!

Answer 1

Hi,
I have the perfect solution to your question, but it requires a little work on your part as does anything that is worth something!! You have to watch a movie called "the secret"!! It will provide some answers directly related to your question here. Its phenominal!! Please please please give it a try. What do you have to lose?
God Bless~~

Answer 2

Aloha,

I had that problem, too, until about a year ago. It all came to a big, boiling crescendo and I made a huge mistake which hurt someone very dear to me. That is when I finally started working on the issue.

That "issue" was me. I have been very critical of myself, my actions and my (often times) equally critical thoughts about others. In researching potential solutions I came across some Buddhist writers that held the key for me. Pema Chodron and Thich Nhat Hahn are prolific writers and focus quite a lot about accepting yourself and others "as you are."

Now...this doesn't mean that you may not have changes to make. I know that I had several very difficult issues to resolve but, at the time this started, I couldn't even see the issues. I just knew that I was always pissed off by someone else not doing the "right" thing (ie what I would, in my best moments, do. What I have found in this last year is to give myself (and everyone else!) a break.

Life is hard...we don't always make the best decisions..oftentimes we don't even have all the relevant information to make the best decision and have to live with the best we can come up with. I've really come to appreciate the Buddhist philosophy of using meditation as a vehicle to come to understand your own inner workings.

What's tough about this is facing yourself thru the many times you will sit and "discover" how you've really acted like an a$%hole towards someone (even yourself.) You just have to embrace that action with as much acceptance as you will the behaviors you've done that were kind and gentle.

Its a hard road..but you can learn to love yourself and that will allow you the freedom to choose to be nice to those people who are asking questions which appear to you to be dumb...even when its you.

Hope that helps!
WB

Answer 3

You need to use spell check, so we know what your words are, however, I think you are asking why you are so edgy an you think people are always asking dumb questions, and that you have no problems telling them; and that you can't stand yourself. Well, if you really can't stand yourself, then change! No one can help you change, nor give you the correct answers. However, being edgy, either you have a drug problem, or you have an anxiety disorder, which is easily helped with medication. (or you are going through the change if you are a woman, and old enough)
You can decide to change, read a book called "THE COURAGE TO CHANGE" and there is a workbook. Also remember, when you are "sick and tired of being sick and tired" of your behavior, you will take the necassary steps to change.

Answer 4

is this question any less "dumb"?? how are we supposed to know why you are edgy? we know nothing about you, your work, your relationship/s, your living situation, any illnesses, if you have pets, if your family is annoying......
Do you really expect an answer or ar you just trying to be like the people who piss you off?
If you want an honest answer - here you go -
If these questions on here bother you THAT much, maybe you should try NOT using this site anymore. If something bothers you STOP doing it...makes sense right?

Answer 5

you need to learn to relax and enjoy life. if you keep being rude to people they will start to avoid you and you will be alone. I know the same thing happened to a friend of mine. she was always telling people they were stupid and her friends started to avoid her. myself included. nobody wants to be around a negative person.