im asked from guys online if i wanna date just onlineshould i or is it a big risk
2007-03-13 12:25:28 · 28 answers · asked by cheer.amanda5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no , its no good.people play head games, they dont know what they want in life, they cant be trusted, they are players, after you fall for a guy from an oline chat , a few months down the road he dumps you and goes back on there lookin for new women.once they come from an online dating , they will always return.and most those people arent real and they are fake.They are also users.they are freaks and weirdos. i heared so many horror stories. they will hurt u and play with your emotions
2007-03-13 12:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
"Online dating" is a misnomer. To do it effectively, you only meet people online, and then date them in real life. An online profile does not encompass who you are, nor can emails encompass all you feel. You need to meet in person to discover what a person is really like and to develop a real relationship.
Any guy who want to date *just* online is either too shy and scared to interact with people in the real world, or just wants to slowly con you into having internet sex or identity theft. Beware! Tell the guys you are happy to exchange a few emails or have a few friendly chats online, but that you prefer dating in person.
Be careful what information you give them or what you agree to - a nice guy will understand and respect your caution. When you meet them in person, do so in a public place or bring a friend, and don't go anywhere alone with him, even to the parking lot. Make sure a friend or family member knows where you'll be and when you'll return, and has information on who you're seeing.
It does require certain cautions, but I've met many nice guys online and had great dates and relationships with them - there are a lot of crazies out there, but with some good common sense it can work well.
2007-03-13 12:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have meet a lot of men in person and none really were doing it for me ...I would go out and they were nice but just not the one...you know what I mean .........then 11 months ago I met a guy on line and we are together still ..I am crazy about him and so glad I took the chance ...... you must be careful..meet in a public place after getting to know him on line and over the phone.. use caution as you would meeting any stranger ...meeting on line gives you an opportunity to talk to many men as well ... I do know other people as well that met great guys on line and a few that married... so good luck..have fun ..use caution..
2007-03-13 12:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by connie b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be. The internet is just like anything else in life, some people are good, some are not. You have to be careful who you date, where you meet, etc.
I met my wife only by chance and on the internet. We will be celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary this summer and we are expecting our 1st child in September. So yes, online dating does work. It's not for everyone but it's a tool you can use.
2007-03-13 12:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It can be a good thing. But not the same as making a date the conventional way. You have to be very careful at first. Do not get into his car, meet in a place with lots of people. Leave in your own car. Have several dates like this so you can get a read on the guy. Even then be careful. But these about the same rules for any date, until you get to know them and what they are all about.
2007-03-13 12:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it is good because it exposes you to people from all over the world who you would never have met otherwise. However, it can be bad because people are prone to lie and make up stuff about themselves and if you are emotionally invested and realize that the person lied about everything, then you are bound to get hurt. It also exposes you to a lot of creepy and dangerous people but there are also many of those in real life. However, many people have met their life partner online and if both of you are sincere about it then even if it doesn't work out, it is a worthwhile dating experience that you have gained and your life is better because of it.
2007-03-13 12:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by lolo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the risk of remaining on-line? As long as you don't pass them any personal information such as your address, social security number, or stuff like that. And be careful about meeting these guys. A lot of creeps use the internet to prey on people. But remember, that there many perfectly healthy guys out there who want to meet you too. So just be careful;.
2007-03-13 12:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by patrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its as much of a risk and doing anything else online.
I met my wife online. We talked for a couple of days before I made a date with her. I wanted to be sure she was worth meeting. Just use common sense and don't give out any information you wouldn't give to me. ;)
Good luck.
2007-03-13 12:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be wonderful-I met my fiance online. It can also be very dangerous--just like real life. You just need to be cautious and take everything the person says with a little grain of salt until you find out the absolute truth for yourself.
2007-03-13 12:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is no more of a risk than meeting someone in a bar --- if you meet first of all in a public place and get to know them face to face --- have a coffee or some soft drink and talk --- if it goes well maybe keep talking and have a meal together --- i do not approach ladies in the real world so online is the best method for me --- best wishes --- ohhh i have met my lady online she is wonderful
2007-03-13 12:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋