Im kind of confused about this?

Question

There is this girl i was friends with and really liked hanging out. I never felt the way i felt around her than i did with any other girl. I was really attracted to her personality. Well i asked her out and she said no and got mad at me and said she didnt want to be my friend anymore. Later i found out she likes my best friend and my best friend said no to her because i like her and now she is mad at me and doesn't want to have anything to do with me. The only thing is ive tried to move on and find another girl but i cant get her off my mind and she has even been in my dreams. Im just not really sure what to feel right now....this has been making me feel really apathetic lately

any feedback would be greatly appreciated thanks

thanks for the feedback. I will probably give it some more time and go from there. If it doesnt work out then i guess im fine with that. Im still very happy to have my friend who stuck by my side and im sure i would have done the same for him.

Im sure i will find a great girl that wont get mad at me for asking her out. Im just glad i still have my best friend.

Thanx guys.

Answer 1

Cant see any thing more yo can do dude, you put yourself out there good for you. But now its time to move on, and you will eventually get over her more quickly than you think especially since nothing ever happend. If however you think you can handle being her friend, apologize sincerely and let her know you didnt mean to cross that line and let her know you do not want to lose her as a friend. It would be no surprise when you do eventually link up with another girl that all of a sudden she MAY start having feelings for you.

Answer 2

Don't feel pathetic & it's fine to not know what to do/think. I'm pretty sure everyone here has been in the same situation. Maybe a story of my own will help you. =) Maybe not & you may not even care, but I think it might help you.
Anyways, my friend *H* liked this guy & we'll call him *J*. Well, she had me ask him out for her. He said no & they were friends before that. He stopped talking to her, smiling at her, having any contact w/ her...etc. She got really upset.
She just couldn't handle it, becuz she had never felt this way about anyone before & he had said no. She was really upset & even gained the courage to ask him out again! Once again, he said no & broke her heart.
This was devistating & she really couldn't get over it all that easily. But as time went on, the days got easier to stand, if you know what I mean. It didn't hurt so bad to look at him or be around him.
This will be the same for you & ya know what? 1 day, you'll find a really great girl & you'll forget about this 1. Oh & I don't think this girl was all that great anyways, becuz she got angry at you for asking her out! That should be flattering, not offensive.
& not only that, but she then again got mad at you, becuz your friend wouldn't go out w/ her. She sounds immature & you can do better. Oh & I have another 1. I'm sorry, but I just want to help.
My cousin *B* liked this guy named *J* & he was older than her & had no interest in her. Well, we're cousins w/ *J*, but somehow, she isn't. So it'd be find for the 2 of them to go out. Anyways, he didn't like her & had told my sister *T* that he didn't like her & he wished she'd stop drooling over him.
*J* had a gf named *H* & she didn't like *B*, becuz of course, *B* liked *J*. She kept telling us she had fallen for him & had feel HARD (*B* told us this). Me & my sister were sad, becuz we knew she had mad feelings for him. As time went on, she found someone else. *J* broke her heart & he was stupid.
Good luck. I hope this told you something. =) ♥

Answer 3

That's so sad and messed up! You really need to talk to her that's all you can do as sad as that is! Tell her how sorry you are and that if you had known about her liking your best friend you would have never done anything to ruin any chance she had with him! Its better to be her friend than nothing and besides if you become friends again you can work your way up!
Good Luck!

Answer 4

First consider yourself lucky you have a friend like that...plenty of guys would jump anything and for him to say no because he knows it would hurt your feels is pretty stand up'ish of your buddy!!!

Ask yourself why you would want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you???

Relationships that need help to get started usually don't last...plus the fact that she cut you so easily as friend shows you how easy it would be to cut you as a lover...women like this should be avoided at all cost...they bring with them heart ache pain and DRAMA and no one needs any of those...

try to mentally block negative thoughts. The next time you start feeling down about yourself because you like this girl so much..STOP...replace those thoughts as they happen with something you know you are good at or some other positive aspects of your life...it works! Remember...it's your world , everyone else is walking through it...

Good luck!!!

Answer 5

i am sorry for how you feel, i no how it feels to love someone so much and them not love you back it really hurts...you got to keep your personal life moving and not stop it, maybe if you tried talking to her or expresing to her how much you love her or how you feel about her just to get it off of your chest it mike make you feel better and give her time to think and she mite come around and give you a chance you seem like a good guy and she totaly overreacted when you asked her out i am sry i really no how you feel and i cant just say move on its easy cause it aint your going to feel the pain and just try to make the best of it and try everything you can do to make it better i am sry i cant really help you caus i am kinda in the same posision

Answer 6

You need to learn this skill I have acquired. I call it "F-um". Don't give the girl a second thought. The less you care, the more women seem to come out of the woodwork. I don't know why that is but it works. Let it go. Plenty of fish in the sea....peace

Answer 7

Seems to me like this girl has a bit of a "attitudy problema". Reading what you wrote I got kind of confused too!! But I understood it all. But why would you keep wanting a girl whose got mood swings the way she does? Doesn't sound like a very fun playground to me. Try your best to turn your attention to more important things. Like goals you may have.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

wow, that has to be really tough. i dont really know what to tell you to really help. i guess just give it time. dont rush into anything else. and always be sure to be true to yourself.