Whats my problems with women? What Should I try?

Question

So why cant I get a date. I am 22 years old. I'm a good looking guy. I Make 70k a year. I drive a new corvette for god sakes. I know how to dress. I always treat people the way I expect to be treated. But tell me is it the drinking thing, I drink on a average to 3-4 days a week, is that attractive, its no problem for a one night stand but after that there is nothing. But that is the only way I am out in public to meet women. Is there another place I should hang out.

If anyone wants to chat with me about this my name is Finestar12345 for yahoo.

Answer 1

What type of girls are you interested in? It seems you socialize in bars, but are not actually drawn to girls of that crowd. So after that first date, you find nothing else to say. You must also be giving off such waves, so potential true mates in a bar would not approach you.

Your car, money and such should not be why someone is attracted to you. And even f you attract such a person, that is not a basis for a relationship anyways.

There is nothing wrong with drinking 3-4 times a week, as long as you don't over-drink one each night.

You should see what sort of personality attracts you, and then figure out what that sort of person would be into and hang out in such places.

Alternatively, just focus on hobbies you are into and try to meet girls in those places, because then you'd have more in common than physical attraction. Then after that first night, there will be something.

Answer 2

K U said u r 22 got that.
U said u make 70k a year. k
U said u drive a new corvette. k
U said u treat people the way expect to be treated.

So how do u expected to be treated???????

U say u drink 3-4 days a week. k
that cool, but do u drink one, two, or till u pass out???

I know what make men attractive is not what u drive or what u r worth, but how much u respect a woman. How u express Ur feeling and how much respect u show in public (Family and Friends). Can u hold a conversation not just talk.
What do u really think u r going to get from a one nigh stand but STDs.

Good luck in finding someone.
FYI a real woman doesn't care how much u have, but how much u as a person is worth........

Answer 3

I personally think you are drinking too much.... ease up and get coffee or tea on a couple of those nights. Hang out by the beach or go to the library, supermarket, laundromat. You would also really benefit from David DeAngelos program. You make lots of $$$ and you deserve to learn how to get what you need. If you are looking for the one night stands, and want the drunk girls, you are on the right track... if you want a different type, use my suggestions. Search on google or any of the engines for this info.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with drinking but 3-4 times a week. that is just way too much. try to lower the drinking. Go to the clubs just have 1 drink kk layta

Answer 5

one night stands are cool if you aren't looking for a serious g/f. Take it from a 23 yr old woman you doesn't like guys who get drunk and likes to get with any girl at the bar that is a player and no girl wants to be with a player..so trying meeting girls some otherway like though friends or family. Guys who get sloppy drunk are not the bf type

Answer 6

There is nothing wrong with you! There is something wrong the person who doesnt like you. I can't say that there is a guy that i havent loved because of they're personality. You sound like a very interesting guy and that i hope that you find a girl of your dreams soon. So heres my advice:
Be yourself.
Make sure to only be nice, and not too pushy or flirty.
Act like you want to be friends, not like you just want to get laid.
♥good luck!

Answer 7

Are you nice??? Girls tend to like nice guys for a long term relationship. If you are an alcoholic the drinking may have somthing to do with it. Maybe stop trying so hard and girls wont think u are desperate...

Answer 8

Try going to Laundromats.I meet really Hot men at the laundromat.

Answer 9

i think you should give up drinking and mabey some girls might think you are married so just go and talk to them. what doyou have to lose and if you are so good looking you shouldnt worry but it isnt always about looks remember that. and if you have a reputation then that could be it too.

Answer 10

Start getting drunk at home then going bowling (where you can drink more), to the mall, to art galleries, ect. Then no one will see you actually drinking.