Well, weve been dating for like 3 months, but I've known her for like a year and a half now. I absolutely adore this girl, but I don't know whether or not I lover her. When I'm with her, I'm almost positive, but sometimes when I'm away my thoughts drift elsewhere, and I will tell her irrational things to ttry to get her to break up with me, because I just couldnt bring myself to do it myself, but then when I see her again I feel like a fool, and I don't want to be with anyone but her. And I know this isnt a physical attraction, because she doesn't believe inany form of sex before marriage. I am 17 and completely confused. PLEASE HELP ME! and it seems like i continue to post this over and over, because I dont accept that these people say I don't. This makes me think I do, but at the same time when I spent weeks without her I start to forget about all we have... uggh I dont know what's wrong with me.
2007-03-13 11:42:49 · 11 answers · asked by Chris H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is the strongest emotion you will ever feel... so here is the one question and your answer is the answer ....Would you DIE for her ? .. let's say it came down to the two of you and only one could survive ; the circumstances are unimportant ... Really ask yourself ..would you give up your life for hers? if you say yes..you Love her..if no, you may still care for her and like her and be infatuated with her but not Love ..Remember this question I pose to you ......it is true throughout life ..... and will always let you know True Love ..
2007-03-13 11:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by connie b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, here's what it is:
you're 17.
you're young. i'm sure that you adore her and deeply care for her, but love is a deep thing. when you love someone, you don't need to question it...and you especially don't need to ask strangers if you love a girl.
when you fall in love...you KNOW. nothing else matters, your thoughts will always be on her, you'll just know. and i'm not saying that if you don't love the girl that you should break up with her. as long as you are both happy and you both care about each other, than stay in it. you two may grow together and who knows? someday you may see her, and something will click, and you'll think, "So THIS is what love feels like!!"
good luck. and no, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you!!
2007-03-13 11:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?!?!?!?!!!! You've may have known her for a 1 1/2 but you don't truly know someone unless you are dating them. love is not a true feeling that anyone can explain. You are only 17!!!! take the time to have fun in your life. Give other girls a chance before you decide to spend the rest of your life with this girl.
P.S. don't swear it is not nice
P.S.S. you are not the only one going through this at 17!!!
2007-03-14 05:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by DeenAARGH! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be in love.. but there are different types of love. You still have years to think about the person you'll spend your whole life with. You're 17! This relationship has run its course. Once you date other people, you'll feel more secure about moving on and making the right choices.
2007-03-13 11:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 21:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by kurihara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You describe infatuation, not love. But, heck, there isn't anything wrong with infatuation. It could even lead to love. But right now, enjoy what you got. Perhaps, if this eases your confusion, you can control the urge to do and say irrational things. Sit back and let this train take you where it will. Be nice to her. She's your current object of desire.
2007-03-13 11:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have teen angst. A good documentary to watch is What the Bleep!? Down the Rabbit Hole. It is entertaining and educational and will give you a good insight into your own thought processes.
2007-03-13 11:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by themoodyspacecadet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts than you might not love her. Over time though you will figure it out. Give it some time and you will definitely know once you feel love!
2007-03-13 11:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might love her but you seem like the guy to always have girls still talking to you behind your back. Maybe you want a girlfriend but you still like your freedom.
you need to figure out if you want to be with her or not. then you can figure out if you love her.
2007-03-13 11:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by OceanBreeze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a feeling you cant describe with someone you know you cant live without...its when you miss him the second he leaves ..and you smile just by thinking of him...when everything that used to go wrong suddenly goes right...when everything you do you want him to be there with you..n everything jus feels RIGHT
2007-03-13 11:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋