I have been talking to this real pretty girl lately and we have finally started to become closer. we are at the physical part of our relationship and im scared to take my shirt off because i have a hairy back. I am a good looking kid, muscular, and broad, but i am embarressed of my hairy back. This girl is real pretty and im not sure what she will think. Please give advice. Do girls see hairy backs as a turnoff? what should i do?
2007-03-13 11:42:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive naired it before it works for a while but it does go back. It is kind of an uncomfortable feeling as well. We do get along great and she seems to adore me, so maybe ill just leave it. The thing is with the back, is that i cant do it myself so its hard to keep up on regular shaving, ect. becuase basically someone else has to do it. Im Italian. and Italians tend to have alot of hair, i think.
2007-03-13 11:59:44 · update #1
if she is turned off by a part of who you are, she's not worth it, even if she's the most pretty girl. find someone that loves you and your hairy back. and if she doesn't mind, then you've got yourself a great girl. <3
2007-03-13 11:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by hooligan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to say if ALL girls find hairy backs a turn off. Of course everyone is different. I think that there are a lot of girls who prefer smooth backs on guys. What is more important, is that if you are self-conscious about it and it keeps you from feeling absolutely confident about yourself, you should probably do something about it. I have a male friend who actually had laser surgery to remove the hair from his back and he tells me that it is by far the greatest thing he ever did. Now he can run around at the beach and the lake without a shirt and NEVER has to worry about what ANYONE will think. First and foremost, he feels much more confident about himself. Ultimately, the surgery did make him much more appealing because confidence is a VERY attractive quality in a man.
2007-03-13 19:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by FormerGiGi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some girls it's a turn on and for some it's a turn off. You could casually bring up the question. Say you see a hairy backed guy on t.v. Then ask her something Corney and lite. " How would you like to run your finger through that hair." But say it in a sexy playful way. That way you will get your answer and know if you should " go all natural" or buy some nair and call up a good friend.
Hope that helps.
2007-03-13 18:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how bad it is. You may think it's worse than it really is only because you're self-conscious about it. To be honest though, I once dated a guy who, unbeknownst to me, had a hairy back. The night it got to the physical stage, I gave him a hug only to discover a super hairy back and had to keep myself from recoiling. It was quite a shock. To me, it was a turn-off, but I'm sure not all women feel that way.
2007-03-13 18:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every girl sees a hairy back as a turn off, but personally I would say: start waxing. Girls wax their body for you so why shouldn't you do it for them. If she really likes you, she wont let you down because of your hairy back by the way. That would be just too shallow.
2007-03-13 18:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if this girl is majorly concieted then it's probably best to tell first, if you surprise her then she might be disgusted! Actually, just tell her before you show her anyways; i'm sure she'll understand! It's not that big a deal to have a hairy back, and come on, is she kissing your back? No
2007-03-13 18:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, coming from a girl, I personally would dump a guy just because he has a hairy back it's what's on the inside that counts. I don't know about her, but If she thinks the way I do, you'll be just fine.
2007-03-13 18:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by CrazyCatLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like hairy backs, but I know girls that do like them, so if you feel uncomfortable tell your mom to shave it off or wax it off.
2007-03-13 18:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once thought they were a turnoff but now I like them. It's like snuggling with a big ole bear. What IS a turnoff for me is feeling razor stubble where someone shaved his back. That is just nasty to me, like a million little pieces of glass...
2007-03-13 18:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes most girls do see hairy backs as a turn off....maybe you should ask her first. Maybe she would shave it for you in the shower. I did that with my ex.
2007-03-13 18:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by sarah79728 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋