this guy says he loves me and that he is tired of his lady. I tell him to leave her if he doesn't love her and he says he doesn't because he is scared of her and know he wants to get wiyh me and I don't know what to do should I give him a chance even do he has a lady or should I just keep it cool and tell him that I don't want anything to do with him and no problems with his lady. Also i don't have any feelings for him and he's been with his lady for almost 4 years. please answer me and tell me what to do.
2007-03-13 11:33:49 · 9 answers · asked by sexy mama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you've already answered your own question. By your own admission you don't have feelings for this guy. You also obviously don't feel it would be right for him to leave his lady for another woman. Go with what your instinct tells you is the right thing to do.
My personal opinion on the guy (with the little info we've been given)? Total sleaze.
2007-03-14 02:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by poohb2878 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he has to leave her before you go with him. It is not worth the drama. I am going through a similar situation right now. Four years is a long time. I told my guy that I couldn't see him while he was still with his girlfriend. I am too old to have psycho girlfriends after me. I told him if he found himself single again to look me up. I may be available, but I may not. He said he respected me for what I said. I really like this guy too, but I decided not to let him have his cake and eat it too. You are better than that. If it was meant to be it will be, but if you get involved now, you will probably only get hurt. Good Luck! :)
2007-03-13 18:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by jabegall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the guy doesn't want to break it off with his lady. I say move on. There are many other guys out there just waiting.
2007-03-13 18:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexy mama, stay clear of this dude. If you don't have any feelings for him, then what's the point of sleeping with him and running the risk of developing feelings? And even if he broke if off with her, you would just be a rebound relationship. Just say no dear.
2007-03-13 18:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no. If you go on and be with him, there will be certain risks involved like what if his "lady" finds out that he's been cheating on her?
2007-03-13 18:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by HardyzChik 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave the man alone...let his "lady" have him. slap him in the face and tell him that he either needs to get out of his relationship or stay in it, and mean it
2007-03-13 18:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by sweetiepie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on obviously if he was gonna leave his girl for you he would have done so already....hes just looking to you for his own pleasure....so leave him dont get caught up in that drama you will only end up in heart break
2007-03-13 18:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont have any feelings for him then its not worth the hassle. Tell him no thanks
2007-03-13 18:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Angelica N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitly say no you don't even like him!!!!!
2007-03-13 18:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋