i am 40 years old and have lost both parents i would like a new pair where do i find them?

Question

My husband still has his parents , but they are not my own.I feel that there must be people that would love to have a grown daughter in their lives. I miss my parents so much and have no aunt, uncle, or grandparents.I live in texas and would like to have a caring and loving couple add to my life.

Answer 1

I just saw a pair going for around $500 on eBay. I too have no parents, but I love my in-laws just as I loved my own mum & father. They can never replace them in your heart, and they are not trying to but you must learn how to reconcile yourself to the fact that a) you will see your parents again one day when you cross over, b) life is a natural cycle of gains and losses, c) build new relationships with new caring people outside of your family- develop some friendships.

Good luck!

Answer 2

I truly hope you find what you are looking for. I admit it is strange for one not to have any relatives at all, yet not impossible. I am sure there are older people that would love to have your friendship and ones that could care a lot about you. Have you tried chat rooms and other sites. In Texas I hear there is a site called craigslist. org that you can go to and pick a certain city in that state and communicate with people. I have ever did this myself, but I have a friend that told me about it and she said it was a fun place. I would love to be your friend.

Answer 3

I am sorry to hear about your loss, but good parents are not replaceable(I'm sure you know that)But the best thing to do is find a great church home where you can meet some spiritual and wholesome men and women. Who knows, there may be a couple there that just lost their only child and is desiring the same thing as you are.

Answer 4

I lost my mom when I was 20. It was one of the worst things that ever happened to me. I don't think I could ever find someone to replace her and why would I want to? She was the best mom ever.

However, I have found that some of my friends' parents and even my wife's family can help in those times when your need parental advice. If I were you, I would stop looking for someone to replace the parents you lost and just look for people who can continue to make you happy and feel good about yourself.

Good luck in life!

Answer 5

Sorry, but I don't think you can ever replace that feeling!! =( Just become friends with some really good people that's what my mom did. I miss my grandparents alot .. &* it still is hard for her sometimes, but it's life!<3

Answer 6

Sweetheart, my two daughters just got married and I am feeling soooo "un-needed" I would LOVE to have you. Not only could you have a new set of parents but you would gain two sisters that would love you to death.

Answer 7

I agree with Catvicious- love your husbands parents as your own.
You'll always have your parents love in your heart and memories.

Answer 8

Sorry sweetie, nothing can replace them, I too have lost mine and am in my 60's and its still hard. There is a whole in your heart you can seem to fill, try sharing your hubbys parents.

Answer 9

Go find a nursing home and volunteer to read, run activities, play games with the seniors. Get to talking with them and offer to write down their life stories. Eventaully, these lonely seniors will embrace you as their own.

Answer 10

sorry but it sounds like you have motive. There are plenty of "old age homes" that could use a volunteer or the schools for the kids. Speaking of kids, do you have any? I hate to say but I hope not because you sound like a self centered person. Be happy for the years and memories that you had with them.