Currently, I'm in a long-distance relationship with the guy I'm in love with for the past 9 months. We haven't seen each other since those 9 months ago and it's really draining our relationship. Recently, I've been crushing on another guy. I'm not in love him, but I could see myself being in a relationship with him. What would you do in this situation?
2007-03-13 11:25:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in the distance relationship for 9 months. We have been together for over a year.
2007-03-13 11:33:15 · update #1
reevaluate your current relationship and decide if you are ready for something new.....if you decide you still love your boyfriend and want to stay with him then make more of an effort to see him and to make it work....good luck with whatever you choose
2007-03-13 11:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi !!!
Trust your instincts, remembering that long distance relationships are NOT that healthy.
You need someone, today, in the now, "flesh and blood" not someone , to chat over on line, or on the phone.
You need that person to go take a walk with, go to the movies, to dance or to a party. Someone that can be warm an affectionate next to you.
Also someone that respects you and who you can count with.
A long distant relationship, neither one knows exactly what the other one is doing, and for this reason, there is always, doubts, and uncertainty.
So be careful, take your time, respect yourself at all times, and pray. Relationships now a days, need to be handle with care.
GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-03-13 11:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from personal experience, i know that long distance is hard. maybe you need to go visit your boyfriend and see if the flame is still there, if not, maybe it is time for a break. Although it is not everything, the physical aspect of a relationship is very important. most importantly, don't do anything you will regret, that is the worst. it sounds like you need some time to think, then make your move girl! i hope you are happy with whatever you choose!
2007-03-13 11:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by hhhanahhh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to begin with you need to figure out who u really want to have a realtionship with bc dont lead the guy thats longdistance on just bc youve got a new crush on someone new have the respect to let him go and why bc the long distance one could also be intersted in someone else as well
good luck to you
2007-03-13 11:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance??? you dont really here of alot of long distance relation ships lasting...but if you are in love not love but IN LOVE with the one whom you are in a long distance relationship with than you should stay with that person the one you might like...could be just a fling causing you to lose the one you really love but if you are not in love and you dont get to see the other much and you dont think it is working out or you arent happy then just tell him that you arent happy......but honestly i think if you are in love with the guy u have been with for 9 months then you dont want to risk losing real love for a fling or flavor of the week just because you could see ur self with him....think about and talk to your love< about seeing eachother more just be careful with your decisions....heartaches really hurt....ashley
2007-03-13 11:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Timmys lil angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to make up your mind fast, you can realistically only have one. You are going to have to decide which guy you see yourself loving more with time, which guy you see being there for you when the chips are down, and which guy you see feeling for you as you for them? It's not fair you hurting a person you call yourself loving so you need to make a decision and quickly.
2007-03-13 11:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe everything happens for a reason. Theres a reason you two are in a 'long distent relationship'...
2007-03-13 11:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, how far away is this love of your life?? if you havent seen him in almost a year, how do you know he hasn't go a girlfriend of his own?? i'd say go for your new crush. what have you got to lose??
2007-03-13 11:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by Krista Nielsen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance doesn't work if you cant see the man,go for the one you can at least touch.
2007-03-13 11:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should do what your heart says if you like the boy that you havent seen for nine monthes or do you like the boy that you can be with forever and see him
2007-03-13 11:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by faneshah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋