OKay my Best friend likes this guy who i was about to ask out and she knew i was but now they flirt 24-7. And he did liek me but now he barley talks to me and idk if i still want to be friends with either of them.
2007-03-13 11:24:06 · 9 answers · asked by Amy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry hun, the question says it all, "stealing my soon to be bf." If he isn't yours he's open in the market yo!
Then again... she didn't really "steal" him if you really think about it. He had a change of mind. You can't force "love" on him and onto your friend.
It's a matter of value judgement. Being mad or not really depends rather you value your friendship more or the crush on that guy more. If I were you and I have to make a choice, I would keep the friend and forget about the guy. Hell, she "stole" your guy, but maybe a couple months later some other girl comes along and steal him away from her.... and you still get to keep your friend!
2007-03-13 11:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Col 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"He merely loves me plenty..." No he would not, he sees you as his sources. that's no longer ok. there is not any excuse for habit like this. NONE. he's almost a large f*cking toddler throwing a tantrum. that's controlling habit and what happens once you finally end up on his undesirable edge for some thing? you rather should be with somebody who thinks threatening and battling are merely conventional edge consequences from emotion? he's no longer even taking duty for his strikes!!! The crying is in basic terms a manipulation. vast a**holes cry while they are up against a wall and have no different skill to manage and it merely makes you experience oh so soorryy for the undesirable guy who merely "loves you and can't help it"... wah wah wah... in the experience that your boyfriend replaced into an person he might understand which you won't be able to be STOLEN as you have your very own concepts and options and loose will in existence. no you may "thieve you" devoid of YOUR consent. that's a slap interior the face to YOU that he would not have faith and admire you. i may well be achieved with this guy and if I have been your guy buddy i may well be achieved with you. BTW jealous adult men are commonly jealous because of the fact they are responsible. merely save that for the time of concepts.
2016-10-02 01:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok my problem is the words " My soon to be bf" ????? are you sure it was soon to be ...did you know that he was going to ask you out? anyways if that sounded mean i am sry i didn't mean ti to be take that way lol anyways on another noteyou want to be friends just talk to them about and tell them that you are cool and plus FYI you cant really use either on the description...should use both ...either is used when you are talking about one of the two ppl lol ...grammer nerd
2007-03-13 11:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Chinaman0389 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so dont talk to either of them ne more... obviously she wasnt being much of a friend to you when she got in your way.....move on and find a boy that wont be distracted by another female and make friends that wont screw you over for a boy
2007-03-13 11:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u should cause if she newq u liked him she shouldnt have done that and thats not a friend.u need 2 dump that friend real quick.
2007-03-13 11:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by janae_gaines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not ur friend.. friends dont do that.. thats the truth it may hard to believe but it is the truth! good luck
2007-03-13 11:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by manosn1b 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They like each other, get over it she didn't steal him, he wasn't yours to steal.
2007-03-13 11:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by niddlie diddle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all is fair in love and war
2007-03-13 11:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess you dont deserved them both...and also its better that you find out the REAL HIM!!!
2007-03-13 11:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋