I dated my ex girlfriend for 4 years and she just broke up with me in December. She immediately starts going out with a guy who lives down the hall from her and has been dateing him since Jan. We are still on good terms and talk to each other a couple times a month and she talks to my sister a couple of times a week. When we talk she never mentions her new boyfriend unless i bring him up and never mentions him as her boyfriend. A couple of weeks ago she said that she was not over me in Jan or Feb but she is over me now, but that she still thinks about us from time to time. She knows that I am still in love with her and tells me that we can not hangout untill im completely over her. I want to get her back because she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. What should I do to get her back?
2007-03-13 11:21:50 · 12 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason that we broke up is because she said she wanted to see what else was out there.
2007-03-13 12:57:40 · update #1
If you let her go, and she really loves you, then she will come back to you. But until then find some other way to spend your time.
2007-03-13 11:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by J J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember she broke up with U!!!!!
Really think this threw.
How long a go did u brake up and she is with someone new???
How does u know if she wasn't seeing this guy b4 u broke up???
If she really cares and thinks about u then: What is she doing with this other guy????
Yes, it always happens that when there is a brake up one person takes longer to move on than the other.
I am going threw it as we speak. He told me 1 month after he moved out he was seeing someone new that I should move on. Man did that hurt me.
We have 6 month apart now.
Yes at first I thought I wanted him back. Mayb cz I knew he was with some one new. How COULD he be with her I would always say? I would call him leave him messages and tex him everyday. I even got to that level where I told him I would do anything to b with him. His response was the same as ur ex him still has feeling for me. He thought about me all the time, but he couldn't be with me right now. I really had to get away from him. To get to know what I wanted in a relationship and what I was able to give. U knows what I found out.
I really don't need someone in my life that never valued our relationship. That never really saw who I was and how much I was worth.
No I am not completely over him, but I can say I want more.
I want to be Loved, Respected, and Appreciated.
I don't call him any more I don't answer his Tex.
Know What I feel much better.
I hope I help u. I wish u the best in life and love.
U will find some one.
WE always do.......
2007-03-13 11:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by Natural 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should either be a good boy and wait or prove to her that you are still in love. Take a risk, but not a really big, big one. Maybe kicked of a school athletic team or something like that. This shows her that in the long run you will give and sacrifice anything to hold on for her love. Don't be desperate, that's just annoying. If you won't sacrifice anything to be together than maybe it's not meant to be. Oh yeah, and why did she break up with you? Think about that a little too.
2007-03-13 11:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't make her think you are desperate for her... that is a total turn off. It sounds like she may have some feelings for you if she didn't completely cut you out of her life... It depends on why you guys broke up... was it something she needed to see change? Also, maybe you should date some other girls, you don't have to get serious with anyone else, or sleep with anyone else, but let her see you out there with other girls... that may make her think twice about what she is giving up for another girl to have, and she may not like that.
2007-03-13 11:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by ~Lizzy~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would e really hurt if I were you, and the best thing is to move on, even if she returns one day then you will have to go through a process of recuperating what got broke. But if she ver does, you surely will find a better one.
"The one who dumped you, sent you straight to someone so much better"
2007-03-13 11:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by copita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i think u should talk to her more often give her some flowers and talk about how pretty she is and if that doesn't work leave her alone she might not have feelings for u anymore even if u still have some for her.there will be other girls in your life so get over this one.hope this helps
2007-03-13 11:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by honeylover191 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a bucket of poo over her doorway. The bucket can be attached to a cork lid on a jar full of flies.
When she opens the door, the bucket will fall on her head and unleash the flies as it falls.
It'll be GREAT!!
2007-03-13 11:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's more than a little pathetic. She dumps you to date somebody else and is keeping you as a backup plan in case he dumps her so that she has somebody to turn to until she finds yet another replacement.
And you want her back. Sad stuff, man.
2007-03-13 11:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are better things out there than what you say you feel for her- your sentiments maybe true but hers are not- she does not love you - she is just playing around with your feelings. Forget her and you will see that there are better girls out there- maybe waiting for you. So don't look back and you'll just see better and brighter things.
2007-03-13 11:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot get her back she is no longer interested.move on and get over it.stop obsessing over something you cannot have. stop trying to hang out with her because you will just be getting your hopes up and getting your feelings hurt again.you will eventually find someone better .
2007-03-13 11:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Tommy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋