my ex really likes me and i like him a lot too but idunno. he likes his bestfriend whose a girl.and she likes him but she has a boyfriend. she goes to the same school as me, but he wouldn't tell me who she was he just said " no one important".he was afraid we were going to fight eachother. and i guess she made a myspace and added him and she saw me on his page so she adds me. we talked but shes cool and shes like "i'm so mad at him for not telling me who you were.he never told me you were actually really sweet" then she told me he would just tell her "no one important"..he said that to both of us. he got back with me and hes said i like you more than her. but i think hes lieing, cus she has already had a bf and he probably didn't want to say that. i'm really confused because he use to be really cool until that girl told him she likes him now he seems confused all the time and hes just weird now. should i just get over him or what should i do?
2007-03-13 11:10:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he always walks with me at school but its weird cus this girl told me he always walks with her too.and was good at not letting us see eachother lol..
2007-03-13 11:12:53 · update #1
Ok, heres wat happened with my ex...we always ended up dating again and it never worked. i loved him alot, i still do. He really likes/ loves me too...but last time we were together, he cheated on me. I can't be with him again, because i realized he's my ex for a reason! There has to be a good reason you two aren't together, otherwise you would be! If you really want to be with him again, sit down and right down all the reasons it didn't work last time. One of two things will happen, either you will
A.)Realize what went wrong will happen again, therefore making it easier to get over him.
or
B.)Realize what went wrong and fix it and make it work if you try it out again.
Good Luck!!
<3 Megan
2007-03-13 11:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by megan c <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to just be friends with him if you can. Because if he likes this girl, even if he says he just likes her as a friend, you will never feel like you can trust him. you will always be paranoid and extra sensitive to the way he acts around her. And what is the secrecy in telling either of you who you were, why would he say "no one important?" If you already think he has lied about things, then it will take a lot to trust him. Sit back and be his friend, let him make a fool of himself towards this other girl, and laugh at him.
2007-03-13 18:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by ~Lizzy~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me when i tell you that no boy is worth this amount of time and effort. if he's not going to be honest with you about this, then he won't be honest with you about the big stuff. you can't really trust him anymore. how do you know he's really with his guy friends and not out with a girl instead?? he's lied to you before and if you keep him around, then he knows he can do it again and again and again....see where this is going? you sound like a very sweet girl who just wants to be happy. this guy cannot make you happy and will not treat you like a princess and you deserve to be treated like a princess by guys all the time. don't put up with his disrespect. you know you can do better than him. go out there and find yourself a quality man because a quality man is looking for a quality woman like you.
2007-03-13 18:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by saxyjamers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinkit would be a good idea for you to get over him because it really is a shame to waste your time on someone who's not even sure if they feel anything for you. You can go ahead and spend your time with someone else and be happier that way. So my advice to you is to just get over him and find someone who can focus on you.
2007-03-13 18:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should personally. He obviously doesn't know what he wants, and he shouldn't be leading you on. He should be confident enough to know who he wants, and if he can't decide now, then who knows when he'll decide?? You'll be in a better position if you find a guy that knows what he wants.
2007-03-13 18:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by poetry_dreamer2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that he needs to decide if he likes you or the other girl and if he is still confused then you should break up w/ him and let him chill and gather his feelings
2007-03-13 18:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♥~gracie girl~♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm yea get over him...you can't really be that dense to like a guy that is stringing along two girls that know about eachother....
2007-03-13 18:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and find out cause you don't want to fall for someone and at the end he pulls the rug right from under you! you need to get down to the point. im not tryna be mean but maybe he got back with you cause he couldn't have her! keep your eye on her and keep her away from your man!!! i hope i helped!
2007-03-13 18:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Gotta Luv It! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have seen afew of jess's answers and she only has bad things to say to everyone so dont tell her bother you but you should never and i mean never fight over a guy.and i think they are both playing you.i hink she is rubbing it in your face but who knows live and learn but he was your ex there is a reason he was a ex.
2007-03-13 18:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by xxbobbiexx25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is dating you then he obviously wants to be with you, you have to trust him, there is no point being in a relationship if your gonna suspect him of cheating all the time
2007-03-13 18:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by prince14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋