What do I do if I got pregnant and told my friend and now she is trying to get pregnant just because I am???? Everyone in my family know I am pregnant my BF and his parents know I am pregnant and I just told my best friend and now she wants to get pregnant so she is having sex with different people all the time and I keep telling her not to do it what do I do???? Her parents don't know should I tell them??? My friend is 15 like me if that helps in anyway.
2007-03-13 10:52:08 · 15 answers · asked by Kally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
15 and pregnant is not a good place to be...your parents are idiots for not having control over you...tell them i said so...you asked ...i answered honestly...they apparently did not teach you a thing about anything...another welfare baby...have 8 more...then you might learn about sex....tell her parents...that way they cannot be idiots like yours...someone has to have some sense...i answered honestly...do not ask a question if you do not want an honest answer
2007-03-13 11:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Michael K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should tell her parents for sure. She is just trying to get preggo so that she can be like you, or maybe she is afraid that once you have a baby you and her won't have anything in common. Before you tell her parents you should really talk to her about whats going on and try to reason with her. Not only is she behaving dangerously - by sleeping with different guys and having unprotected sex, why would she want to have a baby randomly, without any bf or anything - not to mention the fact that 15 is wayyyy too young to be a mom if you can help it.
2007-03-13 18:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to have a baby just because you made one. Your friend is a knuckle-head, unsafe to be having sex without protection just for a baby, and not for love or other good reason. I pity her child and yours.
Fifteen is too young to be a mother. You don't have a job, and education, a husband, nothing a baby needs in a mother.-You are dumping your problems on your family and on your country (by taxing our welfare system.)
If you were my daughter, I would help you get an abortion, so you can continue on with your life, and not start out with a baby and no sense.
Get an education, get a job you love, find a decent man to help you raise kids, and THEN make a baby. It will still be exciting, but you'll be able to handle it.
What is the matter with you, that you would have a baby just for something to do? And she is even nuttier.
Have some control and self-respect! Good grief.
2007-03-13 18:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my God! you could be the same age as my lil sis! tell her what you did was a huge mistake(and it is) you're too young to be having a child brought to the world.Having a child is huge responsibility and tell her having sex with numerous ppl can get her seriously ill AIDS and all the other sexually transmitted disease.Having these disease can kill slowly and worst there isn't a cure in the world for this.confront her first since she is your best friend if she still won't listen get your parents to have a talk with her parents.but bare in mind her parents might blame you for your mistake in the first place.It's not cool to be pregnant at this age.there is no freedom and how do you plan on supporting your baby? you aren't even working to begin with..think about it..it's a sin to bring a child into this world when you are not prepared to care and nuture them it's as bad as buying a pet fish and not feeding it.
2007-03-13 18:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by nadienia864 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is done - IS DONE- I mean no use in telling you that your too young to be pregnant- I KNOW YOU KNOW THAT- what you might not know is that life for you has just finished, now you have to grow ( fast) because your going to be a mom. What you can do is try to save a 'friend ' from doing the same - I would tell her parents exactly what she is doing and why she is doing it.
Sorry you will have to grow very fast, sorry you will miss out on all that life has to offer to young girls like you, sorry, sorry sorry for all that you will be missing in life. :-(
2007-03-13 18:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell are you pregnant at 15? Let alone having sex?!?! WOW! Id tell her parents......Its not safe for her to sleep with random people...if she doesnt get pregnant she may get AIDS or some other STD!!!!
2007-03-13 17:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_p_719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know either you or your friend's story but I do know that no one here has the right to judge either of you. Everyone makes mistakes...not that your baby is a mistake babies are beautiful but does your friend understand all the fears and hardships that go along with pregnancy and parenthood???
2007-03-13 18:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Ria B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really tell them. If she's not ready and having the baby for the wrong reasons then not only is she ruining her own life, but that of her unborn child too.
2007-03-13 17:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!!! Talk to your friend, tell her she is making a big mistake. If she doesn't understand you then go to her parents. But do it soon before its too late.
2007-03-13 17:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by star86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats rough, you should talk to her first about y she shouldnt be doing this and if she doesnt listen maybe tell a guidence counselor at school who can talk to her about it. that would be the best way I think. Hope I Helped!
2007-03-13 18:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by Brittany l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋