he said "i wont stop you (K)"
i got mad and he said that he he liked what i said and that i should say it more... i got really mad, wasnt the response i was looking for..
What did he mean.. was i right to get mad? would you???
please help:)
2007-03-13 10:49:16 · 32 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't have gotten mad
2007-03-13 10:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are angry because he didn't respond with the love word in return so you felt rejected, kinda foolish and hurt. Anger usually is an expression of hurt.
I would suggest that in future when you make a statement to anyone, don't do it with the expectation that they have to respond the way you want them to or you will be disappointed more often than not. You can't predict a person's response and a person should feel free to respond how they like and not feel pressured into saying something they don't mean.
Good luck.
2007-03-13 10:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably just teasing - or he just didn't know how to respond to that. I mean, falling in love is a big thing, but when you talk about it as something that may or may not happen, what's he supposed to say? "that would be nice"? "don't bother"? Look at it from his perspective - unless you know exactly what you'd say to him if he said the exact same thing to you.
Sounds like he didn't mean anything hurtful and was just caught off-guard.
I understand being annoyed, but give the guy another chance, or better yet just let the relationship keep growing until one or both of you feels ready to say "I love you" instead of "I might love you someday".
2007-03-13 10:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Megs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have asked him what he means.only he can tell you that.but i have been with my bf for 7months and i have waited a month or so to tell him i love him. i want to sit back make sure its love.i don't want to go around telling every bf i have had that i love him becuz its not true and in time you will learn that it wasn't love just lust.but you put the ball in his court if he isn't in love don't get mad at him he cant help who he loves or how fast he falls as well has you cant.am not saying you should be hurt becuz once again you cant help how you feel. but just be young while you can and don't rush things they will happen when its right.
2007-03-13 11:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by xxbobbiexx25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be offended too but wouldnt make such a big deal out of it..i mean sweetie, he's just stumped by it and might just recovering from the 'shock' of your sudden confession. haha..at the same time, you cant make him fall for you. actually, i find your whole 'relationship' thing a bit confusing because..aren't you supposed to love someone FIRST and having him loving you back that both of you can claim each other as bf and gf? thats odd. i never claimed anyone as a boyfriend till i'm sure i love him....
p/s are you sure you're still not a kid or something?
2007-03-13 13:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have overreacted a little. When you first hear it, it kind of sounds like a negative thing, but it really isn't. It's really quite sweet of him to say. When he said that, it meant that he feels the same or has similar feelings. If he didn't, he probably would have dumped you. You've obviously got a good one, don't make things tense over something this small. It was a good thing that he said to you. Good luck!
(Wish my guy would have told me things like that, I wouldn't have had to dump his a**)
2007-03-13 10:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by kdd_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have gotten mad. Maybe he's been waiting for you to tell him that you love him - i think my fella would be the one getting mad if i said to him "I might start to love you" - sounds like your not sure about it!
2007-03-13 12:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by HLW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'I might start to love you' isnt actually telling him that you love him, he could tell that you were clearly testing the water so to say so I would say and men really hate that, they hate being tested.
If you love him then be straight with him and tell him how you honestly feel, from his response I think that he might love you too but is just to scared to tell you cos you keep choosing words that seem like they are testing him....
remember men hate being tested....
good luck darlin... x
2007-03-13 10:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by EveyM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a man, I don't have any slight stance to support your bf, but I think he was just trying to be cool to show his own affection to you. It sounds cool, doesn't it?
Did you expect some romantic words from him?
There is no accounting for tastes.
I think he also loves you.
2007-03-13 11:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a bloke, he not gonna give up his pride that easy, he said he wants u too, tht means he pretty much feels the same way, at least he didn't freak out. if he didn't feel the same way or happy that u said that he would have said that he wasn't sure or worse, trust me it's his way of telling you he loves u
2007-03-13 10:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by white_funny_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were right to get mad if you want to scare him away. Relax, there is plenty of time for all that, just enjoy your relationship.
2007-03-13 10:54:20 · answer #11 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋