my bf has classes on my spring break but about 3 weeks ago he told me that he could go wid me to the beach for a week and i told him r u sure cuz id want you to tell me u can and den not be able to a week be4 and he said i am sure i promise on me n u and now a few weeks b4 he all of a sudden cant go and i am really upset(i get upset easily) and he keeps tellin me to stop complaining bout it and bein sad but i cant help it. and he dont want me to go now cuz i geuss he thinks i am goin to cheat on him but i am not. so should i b upset and wat should i do to get in a better mood and wat should i do about the situatation?????/
2007-03-13 10:44:27 · 9 answers · asked by ~I Love Allen~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him too bad you're going, and to have fun in his classes and study hard and you'll call him when you can - but you don't know how much because you know you'll be super busy down there and the reception out there sucks.....that'll teach him to make false promises.
2007-03-13 10:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he backed out on you and it isn't fair. Take your best friends and go have a great time, because you will never get this time back. I would love to go to the beach! If he can't be happy for you and be jealous that you get to go, then he isn't worth your time. Go have hurrahs with the girls! No man should make you cry or accuse you of something that hasn't even happened yet. He is really insecure if he is that way now. Good luck. Don't give in, it is a way of control. If he can't go, he doesn't want you to go because he won't have fun so why should you. Do what you feel is best, but I would rather take the time with the friends!!!
2007-03-13 17:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Peek A Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this guy sounds like a complete liar. he should pf kept his word or should over never said he promised. If he promised on "u and him" then he just is showing that he doesnt want this because he says he cant go but he promised on ur relationship. He also seems overbaring to think that u are going to cheat on him while ur away somewhere where he cant be at. this guy doesnt seem to be treating u fairly and u should find a way to break it off with him because this is not healthy for u to be upset over someone that is probably going to constantly hurt u. Hope I Helped!!!
2007-03-13 17:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn some english first off. Second off just do your own thing. Quit worrying what your bf is gonna think when your away. And stop being so upset and have fun while your away.
2007-03-13 17:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by Just a girl... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It´s ok to be upset, better if he knows you and loves you in all your moods but don´t exagerate please.
Now think what is most important in your heart, that spring break or him? and decide, if you decide that is him, then be staright and tell him that you will skip the trip this one and last time, next you will leave with your friends and if he cancels you will consider the relationship.
2007-03-13 17:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by copita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get easily upset, you have to change that ASAP, guys hate that and no matter how beautiful you are, you will push guys away with that, try to be understanding and accepting
2007-03-13 17:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about what it would be like to be with me!!!!!!!!!!!That should make you feel better all over,Again, I'm taken already! I'm not going to lose my Indian princess for a tramp like you, NO WAY JOSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-13 17:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with ur girl friends and tell him to chill
2007-03-13 17:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by the cookie princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with ur other friends
2007-03-13 17:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by Gabi-Gab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋