how can you tell if a guy likes you?

Question

i like this guy a lot he's in my class and he sits behind me. i can't tell if he is flirting w/ me. he kicks my desk a lot and its like an everyday thing. he will also say hi to me multiple times when he walks into class. so does this mean he likes me? and one time he brushed his pencil across my binder, i guess he was trying to get my attention. what does this mean?

Answer 1

***How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
*He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it

* He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)

*He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

*He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.

*He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.

*He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.

*He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!

*He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."

*His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.

*His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.

Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.

*His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)

When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)

*He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)

*His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'

If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.

*He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)

*He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.

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Answer 2

How does he kick your desk when he sits behind you? Has he got really, really long legs? You know what they say about guys with really, really long legs? They have really, really long trousers.

You are just doing this to brag about the fact that a male has shown interest in you. He wants to fu(k you and well you know. And you want to fu(k him ragged too. Get on with. You are, after all, the first two humans to have sex.

Answer 3

hey,this is vicky...
first of all peer in ur self tht wht u wana hav?
n remember 1 thing some times it may be nly infetuation..n avoid it coz i can be a caouse of ur spticism..
nw to talk abt a person whom u wana propose or show wht u r having in ur heart for him?
i think ur suppose to be very frank n open minded gal so go to him n simply try 2 knw by talking n express ur feeling nt in a manner tht u luv him ...
ok jst keep doing this thing thn he may let himself knw tht waht u wana express..........
best of luck

Answer 4

okay so like, he either is a freak and is tryign to get attention or he must liek you. One of my best friends does the same thign to me and i LOVE him and he LOVES me but we just decide to be best friends and i think if me and him would go out it would ruin our friendship. so if you liek this guy and he lieks you and your good friends i say just take it slow.

Answer 5

guys seek attension when they like you so i would say but dont embarass yourself and find a way to ask him that he will give you a up forward and truthful answer and find out....i say go for it what do you have to lose. hmm... it means he probably is interested

Answer 6

Either he's flirting.
Or he's just messing around with you.
Some guys like to mingle a lot. It doesn't mean they like you. Its just fun to them.
Why don't you ask him.
GOod lUck

Answer 7

it could mean he likes you. i think it does. its one thing if he wants you to know hes there, but hes saying hi as a friendly thing. i think u should look out for more clues.

Answer 8

Well it depends if he is like that around anyone else. If not, then it COULD mean that he likes you. Trust your intuition... what do you think? Does he like you?

Answer 9

he likes u

Answer 10

It means he likes you....go for it!