I really really reallly like this guy and we used to talk some. He used to flirt with me and I used to flirt with him and I don't know why, but he moved to another seat(he used to sit right in front of me), but my friend said she asked him and it was b/c of this girl that's being a loser to him but I really don't think that's the case. He used to always look at me, turn around and talk to me, joke around, tease and make me laugh and one day he just moves! i don't get that! He won't make eye contact with me anymore, talk to me, or anything! Did I do something wrong or is it some strange guy thing I don't know about? A lot of my friends could even tell I was flirting with him and he was flirting back and now...I have no idea! And if it's something I did, is there any way for me to confront him while he's away from his buds b/c he has a different personality when he sees me in the hallwayz. I 'm so confused, but I still want to tell him that I like him because I think he's worth it!
2007-03-13 10:37:29 · 15 answers · asked by lovin' it 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he moved because he likes you, or he found out that u like him and he is a little uncomfortable.
2007-03-15 12:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honesty is always the best policy. Guys are sometimes as confused as girls when it comes to these things. They think they're getting one message and she thinks she is sending out a totally different message.
Tell him you want to sit down and talk to him about something.
Do it yourself, not through someone else. When the time comes, just be honest. Say something like "Hey, I noticed you havent been around lately and I miss talking to you. I really like you and hope that I havent said or done something to alienate you. If that's the case, let's talk about it"
Good chance he'll tell you what's up and you can go from there. If nothing else, at least you won't have to go on wondering what his problem is or if you've done something.
2007-03-13 17:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Chillyboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that one or more of his friends caught wind of this and teased him. so he turned the other way to be a man in front of his friends. Ignore him and move on, if he really likes you he will come around and if not-move on to another guy. There are lots of guys available, don't waste time on just one. I bet if someone teased him about liking you, the guy that teased him like you himself. Don't cry over this, you are too good of a person to waste your time. Good Luck
2007-03-21 14:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Deborah D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is let him know you think he's a great guy and you miss the fun you had with him. From there on, feel out the situation to decide when to tell him that you really like him.
2007-03-13 17:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Dysire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your relationship with him right now isn't exactly walkin' on sunshine, you have nothing to lose. Just go for it. He might be feeling the exact same way. Just don't invest your happiness in him liking you, because then if he doesn't have feelings for you, you are going to be really upset.
2007-03-13 17:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by .:Blair:. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be a time when you catch him looking at you in class. Wink at him and smile. There you have said it all without saying a word. You will catch him off guard and see if he doesn't respond to that. He will find your confidence and candor very attractive.
2007-03-21 10:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yer lol i agree ask one of your friends to do it for you. That way you wont get embarassed this is how i got my man it worked like a charm ;]]
Friends are always there 4 u x
2007-03-13 17:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jade L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should really write him a letter about it and tell him i like you and also why you ignoring me. i think he used to like you but i think now he dosnt like you because he might find another girl that he lives so also talk about this in your letter. i think you should give the letter by giving it to your other friend and tell him to give it to the guy u like, I hope this will help you.
2007-03-13 17:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by saad1224 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go for it. When you see him in the hallway, just jokingly say "hey why did you move seats, did I smell that bad?"
2007-03-13 17:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by PrettyEskimo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him go for it! don't ever wait just either talk to him or write him a note telling him how you feel. odds are he likes you too and yeah. just be confident i mean you said that you two always flirted and such. go for it!!!
2007-03-13 17:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋