See about 3 months ago i broke up with my BF becuase of communication problem....we could never talk to each other or see each other, and we both agreed that it wasn't fair to either of us to keep going. After i broke up with him i relised that i still really loved him. but when i tried to talk to him all he owuld do was ignore me. For the past few months we haven't been talking and no matter what i do he always just changes the subject or ignores. I have asked on eof his best friends to ask to talk to me or to bring up the subject on why he wouldn't talk to me, but he always just walked away or changed the subject.i know of about 10 people who even though i didn't ask have told him to talk to me. But it is always hte same old thing. i have written him a couple note telling him how sry i am and that i shouldn't have broken up with him and that i regret ever letting him go cause he was basically the best thing that has happened to me in probably 2 years...continued to What is going on 2
2007-03-13 10:35:59 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Mystery 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say he has been really hurt when you broke up with him, and now the hurt is anger and won't let you have another chance at hurting him again. If it was because the two of you couldn't communicate, I would say he is not going to communicate now, especially the more your friends keep after him for you.
2007-03-13 10:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love someone, if they don't love you. That's my opinion. You can't help it. You said yourself you broke up because of communication problems, so shouldn't that be a huge 'hint' as to whats going on now? You can't change the past. Whats done is done. You shouldn't even still be in contact with this guy.! Again that's just my opinion. but nonetheless, I think the main reason your so obsessed with this guy, is because of, not only your past together, but also the fact that, maybe, just maybe, he turned your life around...? and all this really seems to be, isn't love, but obsession. (Sorry to say.) Heck, for all I know, this guy could've been your first boyfriend, and you never stop 'loving' your first boyfriend or girlfriend. But either way, you have to move on with your life. Don't let this take everything from. Don't let him become your 'life', and lose your life.
2007-03-13 17:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"we broke up because of a communication problem" is code for "One of us was sick of talking to, seeing and being around the other one".
Silliness. I'll say you have a communication problem: you can't even be straight with us.
2007-03-13 17:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a hint. You can't make him love you again. You broke up for a reason.
2007-03-13 17:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's hurt he wants you to keep on after him he wants to see how much you love him and want him back just tell him face to face how you really feel and tell him you made a big mistake try to work it out
2007-03-13 17:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You broke it off so you need to deal with the consequence....he doesn't want to be your yo-yo....so stop bouncing him around...he doesn't want to get hurt anymore and probably doesn't trust you with his heart anymore...
Sorry darlin' better luck with the next guy...
2007-03-13 17:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is it really? Do you miss his wallett? Get real find someone else or stay single.
2007-03-13 17:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by Suzy G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on sweetheart, if he was into you,he would be trying harder to comunicate with you. god bless you,and you in my prayers. john
2007-03-13 17:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just doesn't want you. quit being a stalker holy ****!
2007-03-13 17:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by wtf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋