Ever since I gave this girl a card and poem on Valentine's Day telling her how much I like her, she never spoke to me again. It's been a month now, and it's obvious that she's ignoring me. One of the reasons I started to like her was because she would always flirt with me and give me attention. Now, it seems like that will never happen again. Will she ever talk to me in the future? (I see her in class for two periods every day.)
2007-03-13 10:35:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey man...listen to me real closely when i tell you...pick up your emotions and move them elsewhere...i cant sit here all day explaining what went wrong, because girls at that age are just as hard to explain as men in their late 20's and beyond...but she was probably flirty cause she wanted to tease you...once you took the bait, she knew she could have you..but dont you worry, one day many years from now...she will be a used up whore...and you'll be in a great position cause you listened to me...
2007-03-13 10:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ah, classic high school situation. A girl who likes to flirt getting someone who falls for her. It truly depends on her character. If she is someone who simply likes to flirt with random people once someone starts to like her she may find it offensive and in a way start to ignore you. People like this tend to be a bit afraid of commitment due to jealousy issues that will build when she wants to flirt with other guys. She may ignore you for a long time, however she may just ignore you for a couple weeks until she feels you might stop liking her and she can just flirt with you again. However, it could also be that she is embarassed because she liked you too. Ultimately, what you should try doing is engaging the conversation yourself. If she seems to take offense to it, back off and give it time she'll warm back up to you eventually.
2007-03-13 17:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by tom t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I don't think she likes you b/c I think she would have responded by now. She may have been "flirting" b/c she is just one of those flirty people. But if you still have the instinct that she does like you, then talk to her friends when she's NOT around and ask them if she likes you(pick one of them that you trust the most)!
best of luck and I hope you guys end up together and if not I'm sorry but don't let it get to you, you'll find somebody who appreciates you!
2007-03-13 17:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by lovin' it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you TRY to talk to her. Honestly...i don't even think she's worth your time. You spilled your heart out to her ands he just ignores you. She needs to grow up. At least she should tell you how she feels. Good or Bad.
Geeze.
Just forget about her. And like you said.. you only liked her because she was flirting with you and giving you attention. lots of girls do that buddyy get use to it. Like someone for who they are. not because they flirt with you eh?
2007-03-13 17:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are funny that way. It seems many times they are just in the 'game' to see if you will take the bait. My advice... ignore her...It will drive her crazy if she is attracted to you at all. If she isn't attracted to you, you have lost nothing, but...ignore her completely and she may come back around.
2007-03-13 17:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't usually like it if you tell them you like them. They like to have more of a challenge. If she was flirting with you before, she might start doing it again, if you leave her alone. Move on to another girl, and maybe it'll draw her attention back to you.
2007-03-13 17:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Crystal ball says " the card and poem made her feel very akward. she will keep ignoring you"
How the heck are we supposed to know what she's thinking?
2007-03-13 17:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, some girls are total air heads and would flirt with a fence, she might be that type,( trust me i know one) but you might have made it awkward between you, i mean you should go up and ask her
2007-03-13 17:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st off-- how old are you nd this chick? nd 2nd off-- have you tried talking to her again? just as friends? try that first, catch her b4 or after class.
2007-03-13 17:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by ~*TinkerBellBabe666*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes not into you move on buddy
2007-03-13 17:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋