When confronting him, how should I do it without making him made that I look through his e-mail and website?

Question

If you check my questions you will see the story, lately he doesn't show sign of looking for escort service the past few days.

I think he might consider forgeting what he has done and try to be a bf now and maybe built on something more. But I have been a better gf because I know his dark secret and thinking when I confront it might beour last moment. Should I think that way? I know if I confront him it will be over because everything is laid out and we can't face each other anymore, at least I won't be able to know that he knows that I know and we both will be thinking what we know and it's hard to love each other.

Or now just let me pretend I don't know and that he thinks he can redeem himself by not looking at escort service now...

What do you think?

Answer 1

I think curiosity killed the cat. You never should have snooped--you are just as guilty as he--both of you broke the trust in your relationship--his might have been physical, but I think both are wrong.