I was 15 when I started dating him then i turned 16 and he is still 13 People reactions are weird and makes me feel like im some sort of criminal or something
He lied to me when I first met him telling me he was 16 so that i would like him I guess
Too late by the time i found out his age(I was already in love)
2007-03-13 10:21:46 · 22 answers · asked by brick_shithouse19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I am not sure what to say about your age right now because he is too young to be having sex. So I dont want to think your relationship would be like that but you need to remember that people are sooo much farther apart in there age then you two? even 10 yrs apart. they are just older when they meet. I wouldnt worry about it, talk to your parents about it and see what they think. good luck
2007-03-21 09:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly+Ian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys develop slower than girls, you are much more mature than him so I would say you are kind of taking advantage of his innocense.
I would break up with him and date someone your own age. And I am willing to bet you knew he was lying about his age. Its not that 3 years is that big of an age difference, but when you are talking about someone that is 13 it kind of is. He isn't as developed as you. Think about if a 11 year old girl was dating a 14 year old boy. EWEWEWEWEW
2007-03-13 17:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it a 2-3 year difference. many people that are older and married have that range. some even 5-10 year differnce. just because your dating a kid thats turning 14 doesnt mean that your doing something bad. just becarefull of what you do. forget what everyone else thinks
2007-03-13 17:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are over 21 two years wont make one bit of difference so why should it now if people look at you weird that's okay let them look and whisper and try to make you feel like your robbing the cradle honey you aint no pedophile tell to kiss where the sun don't shine. lol good luck
2007-03-21 16:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when i was 17 my bf was 15 and i didnt think it was that bad, but then i turned 18 and he was still 15 for a few months, thats when i started feeling self concious about it. but i knew his age all along. anyways, my advice to you is, dont care what other people think. if he makes you happy thats all that matters. you deserve to be happy, and in my opinion you're not taking advantage of him because he wants you too.
2007-03-14 05:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me its not wrong at all iv'e herd of a lot worse if your in love it shouldn't matter and also if he's mature enough and you don't notice the age difference yourself then who cares. Don't listen to what others say anout it.....im sure the majority of all thier parents have at least five or more years of an agew differnce and it oviously worked out for them.
2007-03-13 17:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Just a lil Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it's wrong that u go with him but I do think it's wrong that he lied to you. If you feel that u are in love forget about what people say and dont worry about his age, if u love this guy you go for it!
2007-03-21 16:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by lil mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i have to say like my bff mom say's you are robbing the cradle.Like I was before my bf was 14 and I'm 17 he lied to me.I stilI stayed with him . So if you like some one just keep doing it for your self. Age aint nothing but a number just remember that. I just say just follow your heart be honest with yourself becaue life is to short to search all you life for the one you love so much. so stay with him
2007-03-21 16:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by missnewshawty_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is nothing but a number but it funny to me how when guy go with younger chicks its nothing wrong with it but when girls do it omg is so weird and odd to folks. i say who give a **** if you love him and he loves you and your not 30 and 14 than who cares. enjoy him and don't let people bother you because it seems to be that it didn't bother him.
sometimes you gotta watch folk some are jealous and will try to mess you up when it comes down to true love
2007-03-21 15:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I think hes too young for you.. plus hes lies so not a good relationship anyways... and for u to say i was already in love.. well ur too young to know what love is.. and when u turn 18 thats when it will be legally wrong.. so get rid of him now...
2007-03-13 17:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋