should some one how is not married have sex if they love the person?
2007-03-13 09:55:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel that its not wrong to have sex before marriage, but you also have to accept the responsiblity and consiquences that come with your decisions. If you are truly in love with this person and have gotten everything checked then its just up to wether you feel your ready or not. Don't rush anything but dont be afraid of what others say...you ultimately are the one in control of your actions.
Hope this helped a lil :)
2007-03-13 10:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Just a lil Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship. I mean, look between the lines. Some people confuse love with lust, others just lie to their boy/girlfriend that the love them so they can have sex...
Overall, I think true love is what matters the most, and if someone is ready to make love to that special person, that's okay. Married or not. And age counts too.
That's just what I think.
2007-03-13 10:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a personal decision, and no one else can make it for you. It depends on YOUR morals, values, and needs - some people will tell you it's good, some people will tell you it's bad, but ultimately, you have to decide for yourself what's right for YOU.
If you do have sex, be responsible. Discuss birth control, condoms, pregnancy, and STDs with your partner before you do it. Be sure you're ready for it physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually... whatever "ready" means for you.
2007-03-13 10:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends on your ages. If you're both in your twenties and mature, that's a personal decision that you are more likely to think out without letting pressures determine your decision.
If you're both in your teens, this gets a bit trickier. I have yet to meet anyone who lost his or her virginity in the teen years who didn't mention wishing they had waited. More than anything, make sure you're doing it for the right reasons and thought about all the possible cons. :)
2007-03-13 10:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex before marriage now that I am on the verge of breaking-up I wish I would've waited. But if you truly love that person than go ahead, but if he loves you too he could wait.
2007-03-13 10:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by tha_best 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want...many many people have sex before marriage and don't go to hell or any of that crap. But you should make sure you at least really like the other person.
Don't do it just becasue everyone else is doing it
2007-03-13 10:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by duvalicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if the two people are responsible and mature enough to share that bond and the consequences I think it is ok.
2007-03-13 10:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no sex is a way of expressing something! except if you are doing it illegally....
sex is depending on your soul mate in my suggestion
2007-03-13 09:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-03-13 10:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Army Boy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT
2007-03-13 10:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by Guru 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋