So my girlfriend cheated on me (slept with another guy).
Amazingly I forgave her...she was crazy without me and wanted me back...Only to tell me a week later that her feelings for me change everyday (might have feelings one day and none the next).
So we have seperated...I felt that she might not feel any remorse for her actions...I told her (via txt) that I would like to be friends but i would appreciate a heart-felt apology to know that she was remorseful.
Too much to ask?
I also told her that if she wasnt remorseful, that I didnt need an apology (cuz someone who is not remorseful about sleeping with another guy while in a relationship for 1/2 yr, is not worth my time or respect)
Its been a week and NO apology, I asked her how her exams in school have been going and pretty much everything I said she responded with "good 4 u"
Umm I think I am generous enough. For even considering wanting to b friends with a cheater? Why would she be acting like she totally hates me.
2007-03-13 09:44:40 · 5 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you even wasting your time wanting to be friends with her? If she don't love herself and thinks she has much self worth, what makes you think that she will hold you in high esteem to apologize or feel remorse for hurting you. I say, forgive her totally and move on with your life.
Find a woman who is emotionally healthy to have a relationship with.
2007-03-13 09:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your trying to hard.Quit holding on.She knows shes got you.Quit reaching out to her.You dont need an apology.For what.You wernt married so in her eyes she did nothing wrong.
She obviously dont care about you.You cant care 1 day and not the next.Let her make the next move to get ahold of you.Then you can dictate how things are gonna go.
2007-03-13 16:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by kenneth h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were the one who gave her the choice - apologize or not. Now you're upset because she didn't choose the option that you wanted her to? Obviously, she's not interested in being "just friends" and is moving on with her life. Time for you to do the same.
2007-03-13 16:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by stmichaeldet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on who she is. From what I've picked up, I think it's starting to sound like she hates you for finding out. Now, I know you think it's not your fault, but we girls tend to think like that- I'll admit it.
Let her go. If she wants to resent some one good enough to take her back after finding out that she's cheated on you, she clearly doesn't know what she's doing. Let her find out what she's done, and when she comes back, let her know how you really feel.
Hope I've helped.
2007-03-13 16:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by dogluva9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is an easy decision...
NEXT!
there are soooo many women and maybe some who dont cheat and want to come back to cheat again..
NEXT!
DONT WUSS OUT my man
2007-03-13 16:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋