My ex dumped me a little over a month ago for more or less no reason. We were together 8 months. I've tried and tried to get over him- but no luck. I want to live my life to the fullest. I still see him everyday- some days he sorta talks to me- some days he doesn't. I wouldn't bother if it wasn't that no one else has ever made me feel this way...and for some reason or another, I don't think I'll ever give up on him...
Do I wait and tell him how I feel? Do I just stay miserable? What can I do? Because I can't just sit here....
Also- should I just let him go so he can be happy? Because I love him so much I suppose I could give him up...but then- how do I know if he's happy?
2007-03-13 09:31:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well look at the reason he dumped you. If there was a shadey reason behind it, or a reason that seemed temporary, he might be interested in getting back together. The only way to know for sure is to ask him. Ask him out to lunch, it's a lot more casual than dinner, and talk about it.
2007-03-13 09:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Luviticus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let him go so that you can be happy. he's not your problem. he dumped you. he is obviously already trying to make himself happy, and he doesn't think he needs your help. It's only been a month(!). Just try to be good to yourself, spend time with friends, watch you favorite movie, read a good book, write something, try something new, and if you still feel this way in 6 months, then maybe you should talk to him about it. But one month, that's really not a long time to get over someone.
2007-03-13 16:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want to talk and find out why he did break up with you...I mean if he broke up for you for no reason why would you still want to be with him? your worth more than that...but talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels also... thats the only way your going to know the truth. getting over someone you love is never easy but you have the rest of your life to live so take it slowly day by day don't just expect to wake up and get over him, it might take a while.
2007-03-13 16:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by *Ms_Chika* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get better don´t worry, talking to him might feel like begging, and nobody should beg for love. Plain and simple if he dumped he didn´t value, and you deserve someone who will vlaue you. I know you want with all your heart for him to turn around and come back to you, but that may not happen and even if it did, why should you love someone who had the guts to break with you after all.
So, stop thinking about him and think about yourself, you need time to recover don´t pressure yourself break ups are tough and they hurt, but you will get better I promise, first just like with any physical injury you need therapy. So work out on yourself, get enrolled in a gym, or any class, go enjoy with your friends, do the things you love to do and keep yourself busy, if that includes meeting new firends even better. But even if he comes back he will find a wonderul woman who deserves all the love she has to give.
Keep up, the world keeps turning and you are going to grow a lot and become a better person out of a sad situation.
2007-03-13 17:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by copita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Continue living and enjoying life. Don't allow a man to control your feelings to the point that you can't think. Remember he dumped you, he didn't know what he had so keep living and don't worry about his happiness, worry about yours. You are much better than that. You will find someone who will fit you like a glove.
2007-03-13 16:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks... you need to date someone else. If he wanted to be with you he wouldn't dump you. Theres not much you can do... just move on with your own life and in time you will get over it and realize that he really wasn't all that great. Good luck.
2007-03-13 16:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right! u cnt jus sit there! get sum time with him to tell him how u feel. & then leave 'im be. u just have alot bottled in frm being with him for so long. u need to tlk to HIM; the person ur havin a small prob with. get it all off ur shoulders & jus tell him everything. to kno hes happy, he will tlk to u bout it l8er. just give him sum thime to respond. u have to cheer up urself too! dn't put urself dwn!
GO GO GO! ok?
there are ALOT more guys out there than u think. u love him now, & it may hurt not being with him whille u do, but look for the RIGHT one.
GOD HAS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE!!! ; D
2007-03-13 16:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋