I told my boyfriend to stop talking to his ex, she's still calling behind my back! So should I tell her myself to STOP! Obviously, I might have to she didnt get it the first time.
2007-03-13 09:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Galfriend be careful, by fighting that girl you bring your boyfriend and her closer. Ignore and pretend it dont bother you.
Yo boyfriend might even be cheating on you. If he knows it bothers you and he still talks to her, chances are he probably does more than just talking to her.
Come here girl let me give you hug! Tell him he talks to her one more time yo gone but be sure to do it if he talks otherwise dont say it.
Good luck
2007-03-13 09:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is not the ex, your problem is your boyfriend. She owes nothing to you and doesn't care if you're mad that she's calling.
However, your boyfriend owes you his loyalty and making you and your feelings the priority. Apparently, it doesn't bother him that you asked him to stop doing something and he's still doing it. HE has the ability to tell her to KNOCK IT OFF, HE has the ability to not answer the calls, HE has the ability to block the calls, and HE has the ability to change his number. If her calls are unwelcome, then he could could call the police and have them speak to her about stopping to harass him. Sounds like he's not willing to do this. Good luck.
2007-03-13 16:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that your bf actually told her to stop calling? If he lied to you and said he did, but really didn't - and you call her, you are going to sound like a complete tool. Make sure he's being up front with you about everything. Why not just have him change his phone number?
2007-03-13 16:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could be dangerous territory. Before you freak out...do they have children together? Were they friends before a couple?
Another thing...if you told him to stop talking to her, and she's still calling...then he hasn't so you should probably put him in check also...she can only come between you two if she's allowed to.
2007-03-13 16:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man don't know how to lay the law down then you telling her won't do any good because if you do it he will find a way to communicate with her. Apparently he's not over her enough to want to stop. You need to lay the law down to him and let him know it's either this or that.
2007-03-13 16:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was supposed to tell her that and he's still talking to her then that's his fault, he is the one that needs to have how you feel explained to him, if he doesn't respect that then there are bigger problems at hand than the fact that she's calling him.
2007-03-13 16:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by jjgreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean if i were u i might want to but that doesnt mean its gonna stop..remember its ur man thats allowing her to call..he is the only one that can stop it
2007-03-13 16:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea25609 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and tell her that you gave him an STD and that she'd better be careful not to catch it herself. she'll drop the dope like a bad habit, something you should do too.
2007-03-13 16:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by stupido#1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So, who died and left you in charge of what your boyfriend can and can't do? Perhaps he's talking to her because he wants to. Has that thought crossed your mind? Well, let it.
2007-03-13 16:30:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋