hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in the summer) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i found out what her name is it's sarah! i really want to know thank you!
i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please
i don't go to the movies often either. plus im 13 i can't drive and i can't take a girl with us to the movies anyway.
ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her... i am serious please
i kno i sound desperate but i need help
anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels
please help
2007-03-13 09:24:32 · 8 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend, there isn't a quick-fix, step-by-step pattern to follow to get her to like you. she and you BOTH need to like you for YOU. That being said, there are a few things you can practice to fuel any fire that might be there.
first step is to observe. watch to see the things that make her happy, and the things that repulse her. avoid the bad behaviors that you see bother her in others. Study up on things she likes doing and look for your OWN INSIGHTS into those things. Don't just load up on trivia about them. Remember she is probably looking for someone who understands her, not copies her, so don't mimick her likes and dislikes, but rather, complement (bolster;complete) them. Most of all, take a good look at your OWN positives, your OWN merits, and be confident in them. If you don't feel "trendy", don't worry about it. bear in mind that a good many relationships have gone well beyond 50 years; not many styles HAVE. so don't worry so much about what is hot or not in the public schools. let your personality shine. You've obviously got ethics and smarts... work with those!
Good luck and prayers be with you!
2007-03-13 09:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by mrfixit64857 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step by Step right?
First you should tell your parents this girl has triggered your intreset ask them if she can tag along on some things but if she does leave the two of you alone. What to say. You should say to her that you have feeliongs for her. And ask if she has a screen name, an email, what is her phone number, what is her cell number stuff like that. I cant type you an entire converstaion. This is your girl remember? Even if you cant drive and cant date try to sweep this girl right off her feet. I should know I am a girl!
2007-03-13 16:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to tease but that has to be the cutest thing I've read all day, anyways, yeah we've all had major crushes at that age, of course we know what it feels like. When you go up to talk to her try to act normal, saying hey babe you're cute, is really weird for a 13 year old girl. try to keep your cool and not to impress her too much, slowly but surely the more you see her act more ....well intimate is the only way I can put it, let me explain, gradually stand a little closer, laugh more, lots and lots of lingering eye contact, touch her arm when you talk to her (don't over do it.) it you guys are right together it will just click, and if she is really receptive to all of your SUBTLE advances and copies or doesn't act uncomfortable it means whe wants you to do what your doing, so she must like you too, if not. Try to get her opinion of you from her friends, definatly do not change who you are, but see what may be fending her away, and they best advice though it's crappy to hear, be yourself, i know easier said then done, but trust me, just be yourself. if it works it does, if not, i hate to break it to you but your thirteen, if i had a nickel for all of my crushes from that age and up......lol, good luck with it, hope it works out
2007-03-13 16:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, just hang out with her. Have a coke and talk. Explain to her what you like and what it's like being home schooled or whatever you do that's unique. Don't get so wrapped up over this. She might be just a nervous about talking to you as you are to her.
2007-03-13 16:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by scp98k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You "hey, how's it going"
her "(responds)"
You "your name's sarah, right?"
her "(responds)"
You "my name is ____. hey, did you hear about that new movie,______, that came out? have you seen it?"
her "(responds)"
You "yeah, I'm really into that kind of stuff. what do you like?"
her "(responds)"
You "wow, really? that's pretty cool. I'm into_______"
her "(responds)"
You "hey, listen...I've noticed you a lot lately, and I think you're a really cool person. I like you a lot, and I was wondering if you would like to be my girlfriend?"
something along those lines...do whatever you can to keep her attention! you may not want to ask her out the first time you talk...talk to her several times before asking her out...good luck! :)
2007-03-13 16:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by horsesareforever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're adorable. Just be yourself. If you try to be someone else you're not. then she can see you through. By the way you present yourself, you seem to have a good sense of humour. Stick to that. Girls that age love to be adored and be entertained. Show that you are interested in her by asking her questions. Enjoy your time with her. Don't be too self conscious.
2007-03-13 16:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by uniqueness 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Walk up to her
2. Talk to her Say "hi" or "how is your day going?"
Try to ask questions, then she will answer and hopefully start a conversatin..
Good Luck!
2007-03-13 16:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by aaronwinner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-13 16:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋