How can I find out if my man is cheating on me? I have a gut feeling he's sleeping with his ex, I have got to know, how do I do it without him knowing?
2007-03-13 09:18:54 · 17 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hire a private eye
2007-03-13 09:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out his mobile phone and count how many condoms are left.
Am someone's ex and he is cheating on her with me. I left something behind for her. Look around the bed and in the bathroom. I sound mean but this thing is only physical. No woman should be with a cheater. If you suspect he is cheating he is probably cheating. Run.
2007-03-13 09:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever happened to women's keen sense of smell or intuition. Ive never cheated on any girlfriend I've been with 1) because its wrong and 2) because i thought they'd be able to smell the other woman on me or just "know" something was wrong.
so, my answer is this: if you're thinking it, its already true. and if it isn't true the trust in the relationship is gone. the longer you stay in that relationship (whether he's cheating or not) the more you'll find him to be a cheater.
when you believe something enough, you'll find support for your argument in ANY/EVERYTHING.
2007-03-13 09:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by youngarsenio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kind of can't do it without him knowing. Men know when women are onto them; he will either change his tactics if he's guilty, or lash out at you for being suspicious if he's not.
Then again, if this feeling is so gut deep, anything you find out isn't likely to change your mind. Better to break up with him now.
2007-03-13 09:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres alot you can do, first ask him straight up, if he says no then check his cell phone for late night calls / txt / his e-mails because they do have to keep in contact. Just look for anything that you think would be suspecious, but sometimes in a relationship you just have to trust it...thats what its all about so if you can't find anything don't try and look too much for something that isn't there * xox
2007-03-13 09:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by *Ms_Chika* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have suspicious about his faithfulness then apparently he has given you a reason to doubt him so you should just ask him. If you try to be sneaky he will try to turn the tables around and make it into an issue of you violating his privacy.
2007-03-13 09:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your gut is telling you this than he is if he does not act like he usually does than he is cheating girl just do what your heart say do okay.
2007-03-13 09:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by lovely_sexy_finer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have a reason to distrust him. Just start paying attention and do whatever it takes to find out. Maybe a friend will help.
2007-03-13 09:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at night when hes sleeping, run a quick look through his cell phone, when hes in the shower or something look through his clothes, and if you do his laundry check for stains on his unders LOL, or if all that fails try following him around one day
2007-03-13 09:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't trust him, why are you with him? If you cook up some scheme to find out if he's cheating on you & he finds out what you've done, where does that get you?
2007-03-13 09:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by dgirl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋