when me and him fight he always gets so mad at nothing. actually maybe its not nothing but i dont think he should get as mad as he should. He ha never ever hit me, he just sometimes bites me really hard if i ever hit him, kinda wierd but he says it makes him more calm when hes mad and im hurting him. Anyway he always used to punch stuff like walls doors, glass, and **** like that and i broke up with him over it. hes calmed down alot latley but now hes been starting tobeat himself up infront of me as a way to get out his anger. It really scares me alot because hes a pretty strong guy, and i know it hurts him. I broke up with him recently because of it and he always explains he wish he could stop and he trys but he just cant. i wanna take him back so bad im going crazy without him, and he wont stop crying and calling me and txting me, but i know its just gunahappen again and it scares me.. i dontwant him hurting himself. what do u think i should do???
2007-03-13 09:16:39 · 5 answers · asked by supergirl g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit. Were pretty much inseperable. Im 17 and hes 18. I know everything about him and he knows everything about me. We get along most of the time sometimes we have stupid fights that we laugh about after like 10 mins, its rare that we have huge fights.
2007-03-13 09:17:15 · update #1
i asked him about it before why he might be so angry. he told me it was because his mom had this one boyfriend when he was younger growing up who always had realbad anger problems. thats where he says he got it from
2007-03-13 09:55:12 · update #2
The only way I would take someone back like this is that
I would expect they go to counselling ASAP. He is doing this to himself for a reason either he has been abused when he was young or has some unresolved issues of a different nature but truly he needs to seek professional help. Itr is not normal for someone to self abuse or to damage property you need to tell him that you care for him but if this is going to work he needs to seek that help to overcome his abusive behaviors. God Bless and Good Luck.
2007-03-13 09:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you 2 need to take some time apart. It sounds to me like you both might have anger issues. Not just your boyfriend. There is not 1 reason in this world that gives you a right to hit him, just as he has no right to bite you. What is he, a dog? Humans are not supposed to bite one another. We were given teeth to chew up our food so that we can function properly, not to tear or puncture the flesh of one another.
You need to sit back and realize that you're not perfect either. What are some of the reasons you hit him? If you care about him, why would you hit him? You should NOT do that!
And as for your boyfriend and his problems with hurting himself. It seems as if he may have and identity dissociation disorder.
2007-03-13 09:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mustn't ought to manage this. there is not any clarification why this guy ought to be appearing this way in direction of you or in front of you. You 2 are dating! He ought to be wooing you and attempting to electrify you! This habit won't replace till he gets some help. don't get sucked into his affliction.... please. that's not nicely worth it. there are a number of of excellent and variety adult males obtainable. do no longer waste it sluggish with this one. he will purely worsen. Plus, he sounds bi-polar and devoid of appropriate meds he will continuously be like that.
2016-09-30 21:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by riopel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him and you do want him back tell him about how you are scared and get him help wrasling?
2007-03-13 09:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by katelen t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him in counseling, if he's so mad it probably stems from something in his chilhood.
2007-03-13 09:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by JAMES THE PUNISHER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋