i wanna bf and i kinda like this guy(he said he wanted to makeout with me) but i think ke likes my best friend who happens 2 b his ex but shes already goin out with this hot guy and i dunno who she likes more so if i go out with her ex will she be pist off at me or not?
2007-03-13 09:15:29 · 16 answers · asked by SarahBear 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but im 2 much of a chiken 2 ask her myself cuz if she says its fine im not really gonna b sure wether shes just saying it or if she means it
2007-03-13 09:20:07 · update #1
but im kinda leaning toward not goin out with him cuz he gave my best friend her 1st kiss.....and....i dunno wat 2 do!
2007-03-13 09:22:45 · update #2
Who cares, she had her chance at him, now its your turn. She shouldn't get mad since she isn't with him anymore. Don't worry so much about what she thinks and do what makes you happy, if she does get pissed, she will get over it.
2007-03-13 09:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, life sure is tuff when you are young. I almost forgot the heartache you go through. Be careful that this guy is only getting close to you to get to your best friend. Sometimes they work that way, if he goes with you then he will know everything that is going on with your best friend. It is his way of keeping in touch. Don't let him use you for that. As far as the making out thing, not yet, it is way too soon for that. You need to know what he is up to first. as for your girlfriend, find out how serious she is with this new boyfriend, If she really likes the new guy and they get along well then she won't care who her x goes out with. why don't you ask her, tell her you don't want to step on her toes, but would she feel bad if you dated her x. she will tell you-for sure. there are lots of guys around, if this one isn't honest about his feelings for you then look for another and never ever go with him, just for the making out. It just isn't worth it.
2007-03-21 07:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by Deborah D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about your happiness, she already has a bf therefore her ex is fair game and you should go for it, but I would do is let her know what your plan are, just out of respect of the friendship, but like I said her ex is fair game. And your ready to play. "GOOD LUCK, I HOPE YOU WIN"
2007-03-13 09:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is already dating someone else i dont see why she should be mad...to me for her it was just another relationship and she was able to move on...one thing i do want to let you know if that guy only wants to make out with you to get his ex mad dont do it is not whorth losing a friendship over a guy!
good luck!
2007-03-13 09:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your buddy which you form of like him. talk it out mutually with your buddy. If she's pleased with it (for specific) permit Dakota understand the way you sense. yet provided that your buddy is somewhat, certainly specific. you do no longer desire to harm her thoughts. And once you're nevertheless uncertain, do no longer do something approximately it and purely look ahead to time to kind it out.
2016-10-18 07:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would bring the guy up to ur friend and see how she reacts. like tell her you heard he liked some other girl or sumthing and then if she says oh idc blah blah just casually bring it up that you think hes cute and you wouldnt mind getting to know him
2007-03-20 13:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...did you ever hear friends dont go with friend's ex's?if it is fine with her then go for it...but make sure before you find out if he likes you like that ...if he dont really like you then he is just playing with your mind or he is tryin to get your friend(his ex) jealous.......
Hopefully he is not trying to do that...
2007-03-21 07:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friendship is not worth it you should go for it. but 99 percent of girls would be pist off.
2007-03-20 10:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by CaStLe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Put yourself first,Follow your heart and do what you think is right. If the guy is constantly on your mind then go for it.
2007-03-21 09:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no girl don't mess with him you don't wont your best-friend sloppy seconds your to good for that. he just wont you to tell everyone he had you, and your friend to make he's self look good. you don't need that problem. find your own man he will come.
2007-03-21 07:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by C@kes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋