I have kinda asked this same question a few times on here in different ways and I havent gotten the answer I am looking for, Here is the dilema, I met this gurl on line in December (we are lesbians) And I was attracted to her instantly and she said the same, we talked on line and on the phone for a few weeks and things were great she told me she loved me right away and I believed her because I felt the same way. I wanted to take things slow cause I was scared she wouldnt like me as much when we actually met. She ended up in the hospital in New York City and I drove there from Vermont immediatley to see her. We had great sex, but we didnt get along, She said I Disrespected her parents and that I was condisending, Which isnt true I am not that way @ all. And we fought, I wanted to go home so she drove me home. She said she felt bad about what happend and felt weird about bringing me home. She said we would still talk . She left, I am in love with her. She has made it clear she hates me
2007-03-13 09:11:50 · 14 answers · asked by spidy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so you were not meant for each other. Find yourself another woman who can give you what you want
2007-03-13 09:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some experiences may hurt us. Sometimes we have high expectations. We get in a reletionship and in the beggining it's paradise. It feels so good , too good to be true I would say. Then when things take a bad turn we just can't believe it and can't accept it. If you want the truth it's gonna be difficult to win her back again. I think you should try to work it out. Tell her how you feel and insist showing your love. When you love someone you have to fight for him. Don't give up until you realise that there's nothing else you can do. the ending doesn't matter I wish you good luck and don't give up without battle.
2007-03-13 16:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Sorry about the heartache . All I can say is give her time and hopefully she will come around but dont wait to long .
Talk to her about how you feel and if the feeling is mutual then go for it . Pick up where you left off and work it out .
Take care
C
2007-03-13 16:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? It won't work. I am condoning the fact that you are a lesbian but I will attempt to address your question. You are not in love with her, you are infatuated. It's a difference. I am not sure how you had sex with her so quick. If she is not interested in you any more move on.....Regroup your thoughts about yourself and ask yourself how did you get in this type of situation. What happened in your life to make you turn to lesbianism? Sometimes when we are hurt in one way we turn to another way.....but the ultimate lover is Jesus Christ and He loves you where you are. He promises to Love the Hurt Away.
2007-03-13 16:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! Any relationship is hard and awkward at first. Just give it some time. Call her in a few days and see whats going on. Don't push the issue, just talk like you used to.
2007-03-13 16:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by krazyinchicago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with somebody who doesn't feel the same about you. It seems like she is making up things to get rid of you. Did her parents say you direspected them as well or did she come up with that on her own? Move on sweetie and find somebody who deserves you. The more you let her walk all over you, she will go from stepping lightly on you, to downright stomping on your heart. NEVER beg somebody to love you or just plain be decent to you, they should want to do that on their own!
2007-03-13 16:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by !!! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds like she just USED YOU to have SEX! i mean nobody changes the way they think about someone over night,talk to her something must of happen,maybe her parents find out somethign shes hidding,or shes just pretending like nothing happen.If she doesn't want to talk or cooperate,then just MOVE ON.Ther eis plenty of girls out there,Beautiful trust.their is always someone for everyone.You just have to wait untill is your time!
2007-03-13 16:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Curiouz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say for her that you love her every day .Send mail try to make her think about you everywhere and anywhere.If she dont want ask her after 2 weeks if she want you or no .Then you can know .
2007-03-13 16:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by sako 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell us the answer you are seeking and we will let you know if you are thinking straight!
It sounds like you are not compatible except for sex!
2007-03-13 16:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously, her parents are important to her and she doesn't like pushy people... now, you know what she does not like. the question is do you know what does she like. give it to her. simple as that. good luck
2007-03-13 16:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋