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Do you like to tease boy's in public? I have a friend who likes to let guys peek up her skirt or wears really slutty clothes to the mall just to show off. I like it when I catch a guy checking me out or trying to see up my skirt. Do you like doing this?

2007-03-13 09:07:24 · 4 answers · asked by Dina G 1 in Society & Culture Etiquette

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It is flattering to have someone notice you but it is also good to have them notice you and respect you too. You have a lot more to offer than what is underneath your skirt

2007-03-14 11:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It is the curse of all women to want to please men. If we give into this curse, men will rule over us. We should focus on what is really important in life, not turning a man on.

Here is an easy standard that works for both men and women: "the more flesh you show, the less creditability you have."

I cannot tell you how true this, in both the professional/office environment and in the casual friends environment. Think of this - you set up a meeting with your lawyer to discuss a very important issue, and he comes to the meeting in Bermuda shorts and a tank top. Not professional, right?

The immediate danger of dressing indecently or in a provocative fashion is that you have less credibility in the eyes of your peers.
Secondly, however, and even more dangerous, is the fact that you have reinforced the notion that sex is a commodity, something that can be "bought and sold" for the right price. Men are visual creatures, they are stimulated with their eyes, and when you initiate a sexual response in a man, you are opening the door to a dangerous situation. The moment we begin to treat sex as a mere commodity is the moment that commodity is abused and stolen.
As women we should save the "sexy" outfits for private times with our husbands, not to be worn and feasted upon by other men in public. We will never gain any respect in the workplace if we dress like "sex kittens" or playthings. We are treated how we dress, it's as simple as that.

Now, how to fix the problem? The same way that we can fix any problem in society. First, look in the mirror and make the appropriate changes to your own wardrobe. Second, have a frank discussion with your spouse about his/her clothing, and then finally teach our children the ways of modesty and decency.

2007-03-14 21:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 0 0

No, that's is disgusting. I always keep myself covered up. I don't like to dress up like a s---- because it degrades women. I definitely do not enjoy men looking at my cleavage and under my skirt.

2007-03-15 05:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by emaciated asian chick 4 · 0 0

Yes, and it maybe wrong but it's a huge turn on for me!

2007-03-15 11:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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