We both think tht we should end the relationship - But both of us can't - Help i am screwed?

Question

Me & my gal both think tht we should end our relationship coz my Gf always & always do things and says tht hurts me like hell.... everytime time i give her a chance 2 improve but then the same things happen... so we talked & though she said she do luv me, we decided to call it off.... (we havent yet broked-off but thinking to soon).

Now, i cant live with her under any circustances AND also cant live without her....

SCREWED - What 2 do?
(Relationship is less than a year old - but she was my best friend B4)

Answer 1

Communicate better.

Each time she hurts you, let her know how you feel PROMPTLY.

Conversely, do whatever you need to do to feel that she's "made amends".

Only if you haven't tried all that should you break it off.

Obviously, it depends on what the hurtful behavior is. Insults? Those can be made up for; learn to shrug them off in the happy contemplation of what she'll do to apologize. Cheating? Well, do YOU want to have to be faithful forever? Lying? That's a bad one, but why does she feel she can't tell you the truth? Substance abuse? I'd run from that one, but other people get through it.

I think you need to feel you've taken your best creative shot at saving this relationship before you can feel good about the decision to end it.