me and my girlfriend are thinking of having sex what should i do?

Question

we kiss and foul arround alot we do everything but the penetration thing so we do the fingering thing but never direct intercourse she sais that i get her real exited and hot and cant wait to have sex with me i dont know if i can hold my plaisur in i dont want my first time to be for 3 minutes and i want her to have an orgasm so what do you think i should do ,we are both virgins by the way

Answer 1

If you feel like you need the assistance of anonymous strangers to make this decision, you're probably not mature enough to deal with the consequences of sex.

Answer 2

In Western courntry virgin or no vigin is no problem.
they are thinking just enjoy life but in reality this is a very severe disaster. because they do not know how to manage
they use from each other. they live together for while I mean for 1 year or more but after while they disagree, every body goes to on his or her own way, live separate with no hopes.

and Now I give you advice if you are muslim
make an appointment ot any way that possible and have a satisfaction procedure,.go to Masjed pass a Nikah resolution.

if you are non Muslim make decisive decision which fits for your purposes. I think you guys are not eager enougt to have lifetime relationship or partnership circulations. in this case, you want to have sexual activity without any engagement or wedding or some else like that, ever never you thougt so far about your future so it is not late to rethink. I wish best victory for both of you

Answer 3

Your first time should be with the one you are going to marry,
You are not just having sex your are making love, you are bonding as one, you are commiting a sacred bond that is to be reserved for marriage or atleast for the one you do marry.

Think hard about this you both sound very young and also remember that intercourse can also bring pregnancy!

If you can wait then do so keeping yourself for the one you marry is very fulfilling and it shows you have morals and ethics.

If you think she is the one you are going to marry then take it slow and wrap it up. Consider masturbating first then you will not explode so fast. One other thing it is normal for the girl to bleed a bit the first time thought you should know so you don't freak out, maybe use an old towel or blanket you can just toss in the garbage.

Answer 4

she's probably not going to have an orgasm her first time. talk to her about that beforehand. the pressure, the tension, and the potential for a liitle discomfort will prob. keep her from cumming. Have safe sex. This means, use a condom, and if you come, immediately cafefully take the condom off and throw it away. you can masterbate earlier in the day to make you last longer later on. and if you do come quickly, just tell her it was becasue she gets you so excited, she;ll understand. and then focus your attention on pleasuring her. girls don't get upset when guys come quickly, they get upset when guys come quickly, and then forget there's another person involved and pass out. talk to her about sex and what it means to both of you and protection and so on first. if you can't handle the conversation, you can't handle the sex. have fun!

Answer 5

First of all, how old are you? If you are a teenager and thinking about having sex at a young age, you better consider the responsibility of it all before you act. When you talk about doing something like that, you have to understand that caring, sharing, and commitment all go hand in hand when you talk about something like this. What if you slip up and get her pregnant? Then, you will be bringing a child into the world out of wedlock, something that you are obviously not ready for! What if you contract a disease? You'll probably be stuck with it for life if you do! This is what i mean by responsibility! Have you two sat down and talked about the future first, about where you want to be 10 years from now? A baby or disease would ruin it for the both of you!

Have a talk about it with your parents.

Answer 6

the age old question should I or shouldn't I. the first thing you need to remember is if you are too worried about it it ain't gonna be good. second you two apparantly really enjoy each other you may not want to wait until you are about to let go before you even start. you know, alittle play and then try, it will make it go much longer. you also may just want to keep up what you are doing and make you both burst, then after the fact get a cool drink chat a minute and go again, you won't be so easy to release as the first time.

Answer 7

If you can't spell simple words like pleasure and fool, you shouldn't have sex. Read a book, go for a walk, watch a movie together.
Just because you can doesn't mean you should.
She could end up pregnant, then what?
If you can't figure out what you should do, you are not mature enough for sex. Stop, reboot reality, and get a spellchecker.

Answer 8

What you should do is sit down with your pay stubs. Sit down and calculate the following:

Net income - doctor bills - diapers - rent - vehicles - insurance - food - utilities - phone - entertainment - gifts - tuition - formula - baby clothes - toys - $300 (for savings)

If your answer is a positive number, continue with the other answers you received. Otherwise, reconsider the question.

Answer 9

To start off with you sound young. I recommend thinking about marriage first. Because often what happens is people tend to get pregnant, and then force themselves into marriage because of unexpected pregnancies. Start thinking about the consequences of sex rather than simply the quick feelings of gratification. This is an area that if you make an accident it will alter you life dramatically.

Answer 10

Well, if you do decide to go ahead, it will all come naturally. And if you are young, you don't have to worry if it happen's too fast for you. You will be ready again soon enough and then you will be able to take it slower. Just remember to use protection, please. It's very important!!! People will say to wait, but no matter what good advice you might get, you will probably still go with what you wanted in the 1st place....

Answer 11

If you're not sure then it's not the right time. Your virginity (and Hers) is a special gift that you can only give once. I waited for marriage that was what was right for me you should figure out what is right for you. When it's the right time you will know and it will be perfect but if you rush it then it's just casual sex and there is nothing special about that.